Registered: Apr 2007
Location: on the midnight street
help me rant
There is a girl in one of my classes who has blown off lecture all semester and missed the midterm and is now blowing up my cell phone because she needs my notes and my help because she realizes she is going to fail the course.
She's very young (I think 18 or 19) and I gave her my cell at the beginning of the year because she said she would be missing a class and wanted to catch up. I gave it to her without thinking twice - I expect things like that from my classmates and I wouldn't hesitate to help out someone who has fallen behind ... we've all been there. whatever
At the beginning of the year, she told me she wants to study with me for the finals. I politely told her that I don't like studying in groups.
She has literally been harassing me all semester. When she DOES come to class, she sits beside me and talks non-stop to the point where I sometimes can't hear the prof.
She calls me from different numbers because she knows I know her number and I think she's getting the hint that I'm not going to pick up when she calls.
I am writing her an e-mail because I want her to understand that she's going to fail in life if she keeps relying on other people to do her work for her.
I'm trying not to stereotype - but I know her type very well. She's an opportunistic slacker who thinks she can smooth talk her way through things. It's not hard to see through her BS though
I'm a big chicken shit and I don't like being mean. I need to tell her to leave me the fuck alone and I also want to express concern that she should change her ways or she's going to get fucked over big time.
Any suggestions?
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Apr-06-2010 18:39
Silky Johnson
International Playa Hater
Registered: Nov 2003
Location:
It's not mean to refuse to carry someone's dead weight around. She's not your responsibility, and you're a fool if you do anything for this bitch. She made her bed, let her lie in it.
I had this same shit happen to me with a friend of mine, and I told her straight up that I couldn't help her because she had done shit all.
Apr-06-2010 18:42
w_ashley
sound of music
Registered: Oct 2003
Location: - around -
Are you bi?
None the less whatever your life your choices.
I'm a sap though and would be there for the other person. Nothing beats studying like teaching someone the course.
Apr-06-2010 18:43
Meat187
Diese scheiß Katze
Registered: Dec 2007
Location: The Night's Plutonian Shore
Originally posted by Ania_xox
She's an opportunistic slacker who thinks she can smooth talk her way through things.
Teach her the class material if she teaches you this skill, as both are useful in life.
Unfortunately.
Apr-06-2010 18:56
igottaknow
PerfectTeeth R4 Dinosaurs
Registered: Feb 2001
Location: The Future
It be funny to give her notes to the wrong class so she then studies her ass off and the fails miserably.
Apr-06-2010 18:58
EricB.
Eric B-b-b-boy.
Registered: Nov 2009
Location:
tell her i got the answer and give her my digits.
I am opportunist slacker too, who sees an opportunity to but my slackin on some dumb blondes stomach
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Apr-06-2010 18:59
Cpt.Cocaine
Supreme tranceaddict
Registered: Dec 2008
Location: Montreal, Quebec
You can make somesort of cruel game out of it.
For example; Put the notes at the bottom of a bucket. Then fill the bucket with spiders. Then tie her hands and tell her to eat her way to the notes. If she doesn't, her family will be killed.
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Apr-06-2010 19:01
MeLLyMeL
I miss my best friend :(
Registered: Dec 2003
Location: In A Bathroom.
That sucks. You are just like Lis. Way too nice!!
Ask someone in the class to sit behind you instead of her..
I wouldn't know what to do because I wouldn't have a problem telling her to leave me the fuk alone lol.
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Apr-06-2010 19:07
leph555
dementia depleted
Registered: Aug 2005
Location: City
Threesome, make your boyfriend happy today
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Apr-06-2010 19:15
Ania_xox
let me drive
Registered: Apr 2007
Location: on the midnight street
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Originally posted by jennypie
It's not mean to refuse to carry someone's dead weight around. She's not your responsibility, and you're a fool if you do anything for this bitch. She made her bed, let her lie in it.
I had this same shit happen to me with a friend of mine, and I told her straight up that I couldn't help her because she had done shit all.
Oh I'm doing fuck all for this bitch lol
I'm just not good at being like "you need to fuck the fuck off right now"
I feel sorry for her because she's going to fail in life if she continues to rely on others to pull her through. I just want her to know that she's wrong and she's being fucking stupid
... but nicely
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Originally posted by Slylee
oh well, different strokes different vaginas
Some dance to remember ~ Some dance to forget
Apr-06-2010 19:15
Ania_xox
let me drive
Registered: Apr 2007
Location: on the midnight street
And no she is not hot
She's a brown chick with a bit of a moustache
but wears her hair all big like a gina and showers herself in perfume to hide the brown ppl smell
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oh well, different strokes different vaginas
