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DJ Itchy Tits
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Question what's a tactfull way of telling your SO to lose some weight?

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Quazar
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The only way I've seen that work is to say you're gonna start going to the gym/jogging/etc. and ask them if they wanna join cause it's "fun".

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jonSun
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tell them they are fat


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Silky Johnson
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There really is no tactful way. Anything you say, no matter how "kind", is going to make your partner feel insecure.

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bas
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How long have you guys been together?


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Silky Johnson
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How long have you guys been together?



Doesn't matter imo. If Jimmy suggested to me, without my asking his opinion, that I needed to lose weight - it would make me feel like shit.

However, if I DID ask "Hey, does it look like I've gained too much weight?" or something, I would expect an honest answer.

Chicks are fucked like that, lol.

Also, I don't know how anyone could get to the point where they couldn't recognize for themselves that they've put on an unacceptable amount of weight. When your clothes don't fit right anymore it's time to fix it. I really don't understand how people can just let themselves go.

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srussell0018
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Grind up some Hydroxycut and put it in their chocolate pudding.

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idoru
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Doesn't matter imo. If Jimmy suggested to me, without my asking his opinion, that I needed to lose weight - it would make me feel like shit.

However, if I DID ask "Hey, does it look like I've gained too much weight?" or something, I would expect an honest answer.

Chicks are fucked like that, lol.


This.

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bas
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quote:
Originally posted by Miss Pie
Doesn't matter imo. If Jimmy suggested to me, without my asking his opinion, that I needed to lose weight - it would make me feel like shit.

However, if I DID ask "Hey, does it look like I've gained too much weight?" or something, I would expect an honest answer.

Well yeah that's what I was getting at. There's no tactful way to straight up say, "you need to drop weight". But if they've only been together for a few months maybe he should just cut his losses


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Silky Johnson
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Tru. Ditch the fatty while you can, bro!

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srussell0018
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Get her hooked on cocaine. If that doesn't work you can be all like "I can't do this anymore, the drugs are tearing us apart ...and you're still fat."

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djhaziel
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