Thinking about getting into a relationship with someone that is around 100 miles away from where I live. Moving for either of us isn't an option. It seems like a good idea, but I have heard so many negative experiences. Anyone have a positive one? lol
Theres a saying in Spanish that goes "Amor de lejos, amor de pendejos," which keeps on popping up in my head over and over making me doubtful. The saying pretty much translate to "long distance love is love for stupids" basically making fun of long distance relationships.
Discuss, please. *Braces for flaming as well*
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Apr-15-2011 15:04
Halcyon+On+On
Liebchen
Registered: Sep 2004
Location: midcoast
Re: Distant Lovers?
quote:
Originally posted by Nerologic
pendejos ... stupids
Hah.
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Apr-15-2011 16:30
Happymess
Supreme tranceaddict
Registered: Mar 2011
Location: Undecided
Absence makes the heart want to fondle other people.
Don't do it.
Apr-15-2011 16:44
Lira
Ancient BassAddict
Registered: Nov 2001
Location: Brasilia, Brazil
100 miles is not really far
Yes, I've had a positive experience. Had a 2.5 year long relationship with someone 20 thousand kilometres away from me. It wasn't nearly as hard as I thought it would be: We had our ups and downs as all couples do, but we survived.
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Apr-15-2011 16:51
Moral Hazard
Oppressing the 99%
Registered: Mar 2005
Location: with the 1%
quote:
Originally posted by Happymess
Absence makes the heart want to fondle other people.
Don't do it.
something you want to share?
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you're just a shit version of Moral Hazard. At least he knows what he's talking about.
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Originally posted by pkcRAISTLIN
lol, i love it when moral feels the need to lay the smack down
Apr-15-2011 16:52
Happymess
Supreme tranceaddict
Registered: Mar 2011
Location: Undecided
quote:
Originally posted by Moral Hazard
something you want to share?
Not particularly. He just couldn't keep his dick in his pants. Nothing new.
Apr-15-2011 17:05
Halcyon+On+On
Liebchen
Registered: Sep 2004
Location: midcoast
quote:
Originally posted by Lira
Had a 2.5 year long relationship with someone 20 thousand kilometres away from me.
Had?
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Apr-15-2011 17:11
LAdazeNYnights
Crossing Swords
Registered: Nov 2009
Location: Los Angeles, CA
100 miles is nothing man. I dated a girl for 2 years, the second year of which we spent 3,000 miles away. That second year was total hell. Never again.
Apr-15-2011 17:12
Moral Hazard
Oppressing the 99%
Registered: Mar 2005
Location: with the 1%
quote:
Originally posted by Happymess
Not particularly. He just couldn't keep his dick in his pants. Nothing new.
Well, that's not nearly as entertaining as I was hoping for.
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quote:
Originally posted by RickyM
you're just a shit version of Moral Hazard. At least he knows what he's talking about.
quote:
Originally posted by pkcRAISTLIN
lol, i love it when moral feels the need to lay the smack down
Apr-15-2011 17:19
Zyklon_Jay
wehrmacht bitches be at!
Registered: Oct 2010
Location: Ici William Bumbray du service de police de la communauté urbaine de Montréal Esti.
It depends what you want out of a relationship. If you only want someone to be emotionally close with and you do not care about hanging out and doing activities together then go for it. Also, you have to be very confident in yourself. But, monogamous relationships in general are bullshit for most people because most people are not comfortable enough with themselves to have anything to contribute to a one on one relationship.
