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New York and I aren't on such good terms right now. On many accounts it's quite an amazing city, though when you're from here you don't really realize it until you travel to other U.S. cities. For one thing, nothing ever closes, and there's a shitload to do here. Plus everything is accessible via mass transit, and it's a cultural melting pot, making less culturally diverse places seem really bland by comparison.
The catch IMO is that you really have to be doing quite well for yourself in order to truly enjoy living here. Without gobs of cash, New York can be extremely exasperating. Even with great incomes, people just age faster here. Everyone always has someplace to be, and is always in a hurry to get there. Everyone's defenses are always up, by necessity, but people are usually kind if you go the extra mile to force someone to converse with you. Everything here is a rat-race, even just to do simple things like get a seat on the train. I have to be more aggressive here than I'd be by default, and it's truly exhausting.
I want to move somewhere where people are less on-edge. Somewhere where people are a bit more relaxed, but not slow or backwards. Toronto is one of the cities at the top of my list, as far as relocation is concerned. It's like New York-light. Someplace with no real summer or winter would be great too, so San Diego is also up there with Toronto. I'm dying for a break from this place .
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