Honestly dude, it sounds like she's fucking with your head or she's pitying you.

If she liked you, she'd say so and stick with it. If she didn't, she wouldn't say "maybe" and shit like that.

Either way your emotions are getting fucked with. Move on and forge ahead.

Sorry to be so blunt, but hey, that's how you gotta do it sometimes.

And 2 months is plenty of time dude. 2 weeks might be to short, but 8 weeks is a long time.

As to the school situation, your kind of fucked, especially if you have the same friends.

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Hrm.... Do yuo go out with may girls ? Cuz i found that if I just asked them if they wanna go out some place for dinner or fun they said yeah right away, never had a no yet But like after 2-3days of talking to them Maybe you are just insecure ? or shy combination of both.. I dunno... there my 2 cents

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Originally posted by Devbert Honestly dude, it sounds like she's fucking with your head or she's pitying you. If she liked you, she'd say so and stick with it. If she didn't, she wouldn't say "maybe" and shit like that. Either way your emotions are getting fucked with. Move on and forge ahead. Sorry to be so blunt, but hey, that's how you gotta do it sometimes. And 2 months is plenty of time dude. 2 weeks might be to short, but 8 weeks is a long time. As to the school situation, your kind of fucked, especially if you have the same friends.

exactly. women do this ALL THE TIME. u can never be absolutely sure what she's actually thinking

i think that maybe she might be also a bit shy and nervous. sometimes people dont know wat to say and they have those insticts that they dont mean when they say it. the way i see it, give her some time, hang around with her and see more wat she's like. in about 3 weeks time more from now, you'll see wat she's really like. you'll know if she's playing with you or teasing you around. otherwise she's not worth it man, and dont let her bother your head

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or she just likes the fact that you like her and is fucking with your emotions so you'll stick to liking her.

As for me, you shouldn't have told her anything about your feellings. Girls aren't stupid, they feel everything. If you asked her out, it does mean that you like her and she knows this(why would you ever hang out wiz da chik that you don't like). If there;s nothing has been sad yet, there's still the level of challenge (or competition cauz she is'nt the only one who might be interested in you) for a girl and she'll go for it, but after you tell her everything, there's nothing to challenge and that's where you start loosing it. The most funny is how this thing works all the time: oyu loosing her and you want her back.. the more you trying to get her back, the less chances you'll get it.
Sorry dude, I think this one is gone.. As someone told you already on this thread, just move on.. I know it's not easy, but you're gonna be cool.

Good luck.

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been there, done that....


and no..no happy ending...sorry..it just fucks it up when u tell em how u feel without being certain about their feelings for u

actually..been there and done that twice.... so for the past 2 years ive just stayed away from women i like cos i dont want a 3rd strike...

call me pessimistic i dont care but..ya...

i believe that if anything should happen for me, it will happen... ive shifted from the internal locus of control to an external locus of control..depressing but true

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2 months is a long time! Most people share how they feel about each other much earlier than that...

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"Maybe" could mean that she doesn't know how she feels yet and doesn't want to lie to u. Just give it time and see what happens. The only real advice I can give u is NEVER use the word LOVE. U can say u care about her, u have feelings for her, but don't say "I love you". Once u sau those 3 magical words, 2 things could happen: she'll either get scared or she'll get obsessed with you. I've made that mistake b4 and the outcome is not very pretty.

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i had the same sorta problem, and jesus girls are hard 2 understand!!!!!!!!!!!

its not fair sometimes...........but u gotta keep trying, ya never no!!!!!!!!!!

Whoa man...that's a mess there.
She might be playing with you but she may not.Maybe you caught her unprepared with that and she was scared or something,i really can't describe the feeling.
Whatever,the key is having faith in yourself.
U can just go find her at school and either say:look im sorry bout that night,maybe i was overjoyed with it,let's keep it low..pausee.. but i do like u,thats a fact-smile-" or "...-after some conversation in that,please think of the approach-please dont play with me/my emotions and be clear on it cause ur definetely something special to me".
Whatever u choose to do,remember to have faith in u and that its not the end of the world!Things like that happen all the time!