hey guys, does anyone else ever get told they are stuck up. I keep getting told that, and i hate it. I dont consider myself that way. This usually comes from people i just met or shit like that. Friends that i have known for a while say i am okay and funny. I make fun of myself to get a laugh out of people i dont really care. This sucks because when i am meetin new people (girls) I dont want to come out looking like that.
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dreamer
Dec-11-2002 04:48
DarkLiquid
tranceaddict in training
Registered: Dec 2002
Location: Stockholm, Sweden
Hehe,some people give out the wrong picture of themself the first time when met but then when you get to know them they are totally the opposite. Haven't really experienced it myself though.
Dec-11-2002 05:31
Vanilla
Hot, Steamy, Goodness!
Registered: Apr 2002
Location: Calgary
I dont have that problem, I have the unfortunate problem of acting like a total retard when I meet new people. My friends boyfriend thinks Im gay because I did an impression of a male cheerleader, and I didnt know he was watching... now he avoids me like the plauge.
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Dec-11-2002 05:34
DarkLiquid
tranceaddict in training
Registered: Dec 2002
Location: Stockholm, Sweden
quote:
Originally posted by Vanilla
I dont have that problem, I have the unfortunate problem of acting like a total retard when I meet new people. My friends boyfriend thinks Im gay because I did an impression of a male cheerleader, and I didnt know he was watching... now he avoids me like the plauge.
Dec-11-2002 05:45
Trance-Canada
Trance Titan
Registered: May 2001
Location: Calgary
quote:
Originally posted by Vanilla
I dont have that problem, I have the unfortunate problem of acting like a total retard when I meet new people. My friends boyfriend thinks Im gay because I did an impression of a male cheerleader, and I didnt know he was watching... now he avoids me like the plauge.
LOL!!!
Dec-11-2002 05:47
biznology
Supreme tranceaddict
Registered: Dec 2000
Location:
quote:
Originally posted by Vanilla
I dont have that problem, I have the unfortunate problem of acting like a total retard when I meet new people. My friends boyfriend thinks Im gay because I did an impression of a male cheerleader, and I didnt know he was watching... now he avoids me like the plauge.
thats the solution right there. alt i dunno if i want to be labeled gay or something.
i tend to act shy or 'reserved' - thats the word i like - around people i dont know. it doesnt help, because people think you are trying to act 'better than them' if you are quiet. i try to think differently around people i meet who are quiet, but basically people just assume. part of life i guess, keep hanging out with them and stop worrying what they think of you. its inversely proportional somehow|
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Dec-11-2002 05:49
Slylee
love lockdown
Registered: May 2001
Location: Hollywood, FL
i am an extrovert on the outside but a true introvert on the inside if that makes any sense. i like to make people feel comfortable around me and be able to open up and act themselves so i can form an opinion about them, not what they are acting like...
i think the reason why people act shy around new people is one of two reasons. they are either arrogant and DO actually think they are better than the people they are with, or they are insecure and are scared to open up because of fear of judgement. i am sometimes guilty of both, depending on the people i'm around.
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man i can't believe i tried to come off as responsible in that other thread, i am so full of shit just don't tell anyone
Dec-11-2002 14:37
TranceGiant
randomly disappoints
Registered: Jun 2001
Location: (Strudel)-City that never sleeps
It takes people way too long to "get into" my "humor". So assuming Mr X gets to know me in December, he'll underestimate me and consider me a childish fool till...Jnue
LOL
yet another example
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Dec-11-2002 17:43
Ste
Planet Zogg Addict
Registered: Oct 2001
Location: Outer Dementia
Re: you not me
quote:
Originally posted by daydreamer
hey guys, does anyone else ever get told they are stuck up. I keep getting told that, and i hate it. I dont consider myself that way. This usually comes from people i just met or shit like that. Friends that i have known for a while say i am okay and funny. I make fun of myself to get a laugh out of people i dont really care. This sucks because when i am meetin new people (girls) I dont want to come out looking like that.
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dreamer
i dont even knwo you to judge, but if sumone actually tells u ur stuck up, it means u r.
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