I was brought up in a family where we didn't do much hugging. Now as an adult I make an effort to do it, but it still doesn't come natural. So my question is do you come from a "hugging" family and what are the hug protocols?
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Feb-14-2003 21:30
bassaholix
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Registered: Sep 2001
Location: Sydney, Australia
Well i hug everyone but my dad.. 2 weird.. lol
but mostly easier to hug members of the oposite sex... they kinda have more of an impact i guess..
just do what comes naturally, there ain't no protocols...
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Originally posted by bassaholix
Well i hug everyone but my dad.. 2 weird.. lol
hehe same here...
on the other hand my mom is so affectionate and i personally have no problems hugging anyone.
its all about being confindent and giving off the impression of being a warm person to the one you're about to hug. peck on the cheek is a very good substitute for a hug (though i totally feel weird doing that to a guy)
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Feb-14-2003 22:25
Lira
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Registered: Nov 2001
Location: Brasilia, Brazil
I come from a "hugging" family
If you're not used to doing this since you're a kid, it won't feel natural for a while but can be changed. Do it more often, and after sometime, you'll get used to it.
On the other hand, if no one feels confortable with it, and you have your own way to show how you care for each other, why change?
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Feb-14-2003 22:40
vito
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Registered: Mar 2002
Location: Ireland
i don't see why you'd want to hug someone of the same sex, shake their hand
for hugging girls, it must seem natural otherwise they'll sense your awkwardness and they'll become awkward, so don't worry about it, if it seems like an appropriate time to do it, go for it, but don't do it for too long, leave them wanting more (e.g when saying goodbye)