just wondering what people thought cheating fell under...haha, no, i'm not getting any ideas

It depends on the person. For me, any intimate (ie long) kissing would be cheating. Hugging, cuddling etc is OK.

I agree with that dude I think
any sort of sexual contact is cheating
kissing/hugging/touching...mild shit like that is ok to an extent. But I guess they still can be interpreted differently, depending on how the two people mean them.

or, you could go the asshole route and say anything out of the same area code isn't cheating
lol
but that's fucked up

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In my opinion, kissing is a very personal and intimate thing...if my BF kissed another girl, that would be cheating to me.

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Originally posted by beema kissing/hugging/touching...mild shit like that is ok

depends on where you're touching

I think cheating is as much emotional as it is physical. On the outside a hug from a friend and a hug from a lover can be quite similar. However, emmotionally, a hug from a friend is much different than a hug from someone you have a sexual interest in. Basically, it boils down to individual situations for me. If by chance a girl I was dating had sex with another man I would be much more willing to stay with her and work things out if the sex was meaningless rather than if she had developed an emotional attachment to the other guy/gal. If she's having those "feelings" for someone besides me then I would feel that there is no way our relationship could advance.

to me its more intent than action. Ill still kiss friends (girls) hello and hug them. and if i hang out with them ill sit close and put an arm around (unless GF is there of course lol). prolonged kissing is for sexual stim so thats out of it. but friends can kiss and hold, and yes even share a bed. If you dont want your boy/girlfriend doing that, its probably indicative of a fundamental lack of trust that will manifest somehow later anyways

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Originally posted by tranceman78 depends on where you're touching

LOL!!!!!

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Anything you wouldn't want your significant other to know you are doing/have done.

I find it hard to believe that some guys here have such slack standards of what 'cheating' is!

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Originally posted by IronDragon Anything you wouldn't want your significant other to know you are doing/have done.

Actually, yeah, that's the perfect way of putting it. I couldn't have said it better.

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I agree w Spad. Anything intimate would be considered cheating. Long kissing sessions, anything more physical etc. Doing things like hugging, cuddling, massages isn't anything I'd consider cheating.

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actually the old tta radar tells me that someone in this thread is not dating a certain someone and still thinks the person is that person's significant other. When obvious another person is dating that person. That's attempting to cheat....which is even more lame in my book
anyway...personally cheating is plain wrong...if you have to cheat you have no decency to the other girl or boy you were dating. That's just dirty imo..

Last edited by torontotrance on Mar-04-2003 at 03:25