the situation:

two people are together for a while and are relatively involved. he breaks up with her and she is devestated and in the depth of her depression he gets together with a girl that she had been friends with within days. regardless of that timing, they are really meant for each other and stay together.

is it wrong? is it disrespectful to the first girlfriend?

please let me know if you want me to clarify...

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Originally posted by butterfly the situation: two people are together for a while and are relatively involved. he breaks up with her and she is devestated and in the depth of her depression he gets together with a girl that she had been friends with within days. regardless of that timing, they are really meant for each other and stay together. is it wrong? is it disrespectful to the first girlfriend? please let me know if you want me to clarify...

i didnt understand this in the depth of her depression he gets together with a girl that first u were talking about she... then he... cant understand

btwww.... why should it be disrespectful ?

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Originally posted by predictor i didnt understand this in the depth of her depression he gets together with a girl that first u were talking about she... then he... cant understand btwww.... why should it be disrespectful ?

k basically.... i am saying that the first girl was not over him and depressed about the breakup. and during that time the guy got together with a friend of hers.

and my question is, is it disprespectful to the first girl?

ah thats more clear...
i guess its not

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Appearantly he wasn't as involved in their (former) relationship as the girl originally thought. It must have been devastating for her so yes I would say it is disrespectful (or rude however you would describe it). The girl now probably think that the guy has been playing with her and giving her false impressions during their relationship (to get some). She probably feels 'used' and personnaly I think the guy is a real asshole.

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Het doel van een heel deel hier is niet over muziek te praten maar door zijn deelname aan discussies een zo groot mogelijk intellect proberen aan de dag te leggen en daarmee een rare vorm van zelfbevrediging in werking stellen. 'It's a strange world'

This describes it...

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well this is what is kinda going on with my life right now! 2 girls are bestfriend, went out with the other one for 3 months then we broke up, and now im fucking her bestfriend! that's what she gets!! bitch ass mofo!

btw. new avatar again!

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Originally posted by Clyde77 well this is what is kinda going on with my life right now! 2 girls are bestfriend, went out with the other one for 3 months then we broke up, and now im fucking her bestfriend! that's what she gets!! bitch ass mofo! btw. new avatar again!

which one gets ?

are you talking about your sex games with the current girl or saying you dont give a damn about the hurt of the other one?

Actually, thats quite common.. it doesnt has to be with the guy wanting to get laid again or that stuff.. it's simply that he is very depressed and needs someone so he can feels more secure emotionaly..

(its not my case btw)

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Originally posted by 44htz This describes it...

lol that actually happens alot around here, except that my cat is completely white instead of black

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Originally posted by Clyde77 that's what she gets!! bitch ass mofo!

this totally proves my earlier statement about that guy being an asshole

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"I hated going to weddings. All the grandmas would poke me saying "You're next". They stopped that when I started doing it to them at funerals."

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Het doel van een heel deel hier is niet over muziek te praten maar door zijn deelname aan discussies een zo groot mogelijk intellect proberen aan de dag te leggen en daarmee een rare vorm van zelfbevrediging in werking stellen. 'It's a strange world'

i think it is somewhat disrespectful. You think someone has fallen for u, but they have secret feelings about your friends, hiding it only until their single and ready to mingle again (which for some people would be about 4-5 hours after he breakup).

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Originally posted by 44htz This describes it...

is that car sniffing shit or catfood?