dude PM me. ill give u answers! free bitches n whores but u have to come down here in baltimore cuz thats where i live

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I'll keep my post short and to the point....

read your post yourself. doe that sound like a guy who deserves a girlfriend?? you've apparently decided not to put any effort towards getting one, and your lack of self-esteem and continual self-bashing basically says that you are yourself not worthy.

solution: either you change your attitude and look into a girl who will accept you, or try to find a girl who wil accept your intense lack of self-confidence.

as for that girl you're talking about, If she lived here in TO, I'd ask for her number.

I myself don't have much to offer, at 18/19inOctober yrs old, but I can do my best and have fun while it lasts.

"Better to have loved and lost, than never having loved at all."

my final word to you: Ask her our or for her number. what have you got to lose? (especially since you say you have nothing and no self-esteem!).. seriously...you think she's all that.... go get her!!!! get the hell off your ass and stop daydreaming and wasting your time!

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exactly dude.

just think about how silly you are being. if you don't get over your self esteem problems and lack of self confidence you'll never experience the joy of having a girl friend.
i suggest see a shrink so you can get over your self confidence issues or just bite the bulllet and talk to the girl.

you will prolly fail acouple of times, but what the fuck are you losing? Its not like if you stood around the whole time being idle something was going to happn.
the more you try the greater the chance things will go your way and also you gain more confidence in yourself

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Originally posted by Clyde77 dude PM me. ill give u answers! free bitches n whores but u have to come down here in baltimore cuz thats where i live

lmao...we talking good bisshes?

nah but dude all you need is confidence, i was somewhat the same way but i knew i had to change...just say fuck it, i mean whats the worst that could happen?

I used to be like you. Cuz i was honestly a loser. like WOW...1 friend at a time never girls. so definitely not G/fs. It was because i was a pussy who didnt think i deserved that shit. I got into having fun by myself. Rockclimbing, scuba diving, snowoboarding, hiking, running, working out...the gamut. After a year or so of that, number 1 i didnt mind not having a G/F, and then i realized how tight I was because i did all that shit. I could climb 5.14s, run 7 back to back 6 min miles and bench 360. I had gained 20 pounds of muscle and i was considering dating myself at that point. It finally flipped around to me thinking, they arent good enough for me. And when a girl thinks that you dont really care/pay attention to her, she finds it irresistable.

point being. I ended up getting a lot more friends after I went on my self improvement binge. I eat healthy, so when I whip up some stir fry for people they think its badass. The only person who can analyze you is you. I felt insecure about my body. I was skinny and weak. I was able to say listen you goofy lookin bastard, you are gonna get a good lookin body!

Then the other part is getting drunk with people. its the cause and salution of every problem on earth just pick girls though. at first you tend to be a wee bit indiscriminate with your drinking "partners" *get it*, then youll calm down, realize how much of a pimp you are, and start high rollin. Youll probably end up a cocky bastard like myself, but girls like that a LOT more than the...wait who are you in the corner you know?

dunno if that helps

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Originally posted by Orbax Then the other part is getting drunk with people. its the cause and salution of every problem on earth just pick girls though. at first you tend to be a wee bit indiscriminate with your drinking "partners" *get it*, then youll calm down, realize how much of a pimp you are, and start high rollin. Youll probably end up a cocky bastard like myself, but girls like that a LOT more than the...wait who are you in the corner you know? dunno if that helps

omg...thats exactly me! when i start drinking...i think im such a pimp and i get more girls! drinking owns

cheers bro (im drinking scotch on the rocks...im 20...am i an alcoholic lol)

seriously. there is a two fold excellence from drinking too. for you more tasteful readers you may wish to stop here


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ok

so when you first start doin this youll be all over the girl and things will start getting kinda hot and OOOhHOOOHH you prematurely ejaculate...fucking happens just as you get them naked at first...that goes away with experience, but here is why alcohol is AWESOME! whiskey dick! you couldnt get it hard if you wanted to!

so thats benefit 1, your like sorry babe i guess you just havent turned me on yet

#2 oh, ok i only had 1 point. refer to #1

whisky dick.....thats what its called :X shit i drank way to much one time and i couldnt get my thing up i thought something was wrong...lol what a realif

Go up to her and introduce yourself. Just say

"nice to meet you. Listen, I bring nothing to the table but I was wondering if you would like to go out for a drink sometime?"



IMO half the battle is just going up to the girl. Once you're there just keep the conversation going so that you don't look like a complete idiot. Then just build from there.


You can try this too;
If she doesn't seem to want to keep the conversation going after a few minutes of you asking questions, just bail. That way you save your fragile balls from your percieved "embarassment" (that is only in your mind, 'cuz frankly no one cares if you fail). If she keeps the conversation going then you can work yourself up to asking her out for a drink.



Don't forget her name though! I can tell you I almost got into some trouble with that.

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i learned a gem the other day, was hikin with a girl and was talkin and she talked about her ex boyfriend, she said she wanted his friend, but this guy kept on hanging out with her and talking to her and she said she finally dated him because she didnt dislike like him and she wanted to get the annoyance over with

then she said the guy she wanted hooked up with some chick at the bar.


then i said I told you you should drink!

moral

girls get guys by getting them drunk and hooking up

guys get girls by persistence

lol so true! this girl sweats my friend and they only hook up when hes drunk lolll