Like your friend is having a super bad day and like shit hit the fan (yet you don't fucking realize this) and you ask an innocent question to that person and WHAM!!!!!!!! you get it....you honestly cared enough to check in and maybe it was your fault but maybe theirs and then like WHAM!!!....you get all this anger and bullshit or just the plain hint that you are adding salt to the wounds.

my question, why does this always happen when you talk with women..pms? or genetic makeup or maybe just your own idiocy

oh if someone just realized my day has been shit...

my response...YUP

well newsflash, this doesn't always happen with just women. i've had plenty of men snap at me when they are having a bad day. it's natural- its called anger displacement...the person who gets attacked isn't the reason for the persons anger...they are just the only one there to take it out on. usually in my experiences, the angered person will apologize later after realizing what they did.

cheer up andy!!

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Originally posted by torontotrance Like your friend is having a super bad day and like shit hit the fan (yet you don't fucking realize this) and you ask an innocent question to that person and WHAM!!!!!!!! you get it....you honestly cared enough to check in and maybe it was your fault but maybe theirs and then like WHAM!!!....you get all this anger and bullshit or just the plain hint that you are adding salt to the wounds. my question, why does this always happen when you talk with women..pms? or genetic makeup or maybe just your own idiocy

You posted our argument? You left out a lot of details.

Are you calling me an idiot now?

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Originally posted by trancEyes22 well newsflash, this doesn't always happen with just women. i've had plenty of men snap at me when they are having a bad day. it's natural- its called anger displacement...the person who gets attacked isn't the reason for the persons anger...they are just the only one there to take it out on. usually in my experiences, the angered person will apologize later after realizing what they did. cheer up andy!!

I didn't snap at him. Like I said...details details.

who said that was you? lmao (this has happened with 3 people today)

I was talking hypothetically here anyway

who the hell I blamed anyone about anything. I figured since it happened 3 times with 3 different women today that I would talk about.

of course I failed to mention it was my own idiocy 2 out of the 3 times.

case and point, I've been a complete fuckup with things today. So I'm just going to hide for the rest of May 24th (then I can't do anymore harm!!!!!)

Andy is not Rico...Suave...

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Originally posted by torontotrance case and point, I've been a complete fuckup with things today. So I'm just going to hide for the rest of May 24th (then I can't do anymore harm!!!!!)

I think that's a good idea.

and then the other pissy people can't get mad anymore at me.