Have you grown up to be someone dat u never wanted to be?
When i was a kid, i saw my dad smoke and drink till late nite everyday and my mom had to take care of him everynite, clean up, hot tea to sober him up etc...i told myself i would never be like him...now im 28 and im excatly like him but trying to push some of the bad quilty off of me...which makes my life double hard...im like this 2 sided person now..i worry bout little things all the time, He has cheated on my mom before , and i have also on my GF*_* there are many things dat we are alike and some of it just sux...
Like father, like son?? now i believe every little things happened in ur childhood affects u in the future..who you will become when u grow up.
Aug-05-2005 21:32
bananas
baby i got your money
Registered: Oct 2004
Location: Mordor
dude, get yourself together. You don't have to be like your father, and you can be different.
Aug-05-2005 21:35
jonSun
Supreme tranceaddict
Registered: Dec 2003
Location: Chicago CTA #77
Ive kinda grown up to be what i wanted to be. When I was a kid I was sure i'd be a baseball & football player like Bo Jackson but i guess i was wrong. Everything so far has turned out OK, except for partying a lil too much & too hard. But I guess I learned from it. Still got some party times to come too.
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Aug-05-2005 21:38
djkoolaide
Supreme tranceaddict
Registered: Jul 2004
Location:
ok heres the solution
stop being an alcoholic, stop smoking, stop cheating.
Aug-05-2005 21:40
Saka
LOL
Registered: Oct 2004
Location:
quote:
Have you grown up to be someone dat u never wanted to be?
Yes.
Aug-05-2005 21:41
LiGHT78
addicted to the hardbeats
Registered: Mar 2005
Location: Montreal, Canada
Ahh...My parents were always complete goody goodies looking to do the right thing in every situation when I was a child.
And now I'm a full out pothead, love to drink, love to pop pills and go fuckin raving...
In my opinion, it's not only your parents that influence you...Every person you meet, every choice you make no matter how big or small it is, it all adds up and shapes you into the person you're destined to become!
Aug-05-2005 21:42
Denser
Thief
Registered: Jan 2001
Location: Chennai
agree with you ahway..i sort of never imagined i wud never turn up like my dad by now i am.
but if you have gotten so far as to question it, then maybe you can change. think.
as for the topic, the answer is yes. i imagined i would be a fighter.
/drunk
Aug-05-2005 21:45
Lira
Ancient BassAddict
Registered: Nov 2001
Location: Brasilia, Brazil
My mother is annoyingly zen and I'm slowly becoming just like her.
I'm becoming a bloody hippy
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Aug-05-2005 21:52
bas
Stronger Lover
Registered: Jul 2004
Location: Here I Am Baby
I remember when I was younger all I ever wanted was to have correct grammar. But alas, dat is a dream I can only dream at nite .
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Aug-05-2005 21:58
Streakfury
Angrily Running Naked
Registered: Mar 2002
Location: 11th Dimension
You're right when you say that little things that happen when you're young affect you greatly later on in life. I guess that having a dad like yours as an example to you as a child has obviously influenced how you deal with your day-to-day problems now. Having said that though, you know exactly where you're going wrong, and you want to change. So if you keep trying to think positive and change your ways, I'm sure you'll end up getting out of those bad habits and be able to live your life how you want to.
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Aug-05-2005 22:23
squirrelly
The Phun Nun
Registered: Oct 2003
Location: In the Shower
28 years old and typing like a 13 year old.
You make the choices that make you who you are today. No one forced you to drink, you made that decision. You made the decision to cheat on your girlfriend. You control your life, no one else. Own up to that fact, and take some responsibility for your actions. I feel no sympathy for you. You can either become a real man, and make the decision to change and become a better person, or you can continue on being a little boy, blaming your father for the choices that you, not your father, made.