so im listenin 2 howard stern and he says he was interviewing perez hilton.
whom likes to 'out' gay ppl or assume ppl are gay
yer thoughts?
do u think no one has a rite to out anyone?
like, its up 2 the guy to come out on his/her own terms?

Ahahaha, apparently people decide that someone is gay. *coughidmaandcribbycough*

I did that once to a guy.


Bad experience.


Ugh.


But I dunno, I guess you can't force someone out of the closet. It's definitely up to the homo to decide when the time is right.

yah
since perez hilton takes it up the ass he thinks he's master of the gay jedi elite
he needs 2 shut his face
:P

Perez Hilton runs a tabloid site (and a nasty one at that)...obviously there are going to be things on there that are offensive.

On the topic of it being right to out people (who are definitely gay) in general - that choice should be up to the person, not anyone else.

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Originally posted by *~LiSa-LoO~* On the topic of it being right to out people (who are definitely gay) in general - that choice should be up to the person, not anyone else.

but others are still allowed to voice their opinion right?

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Originally posted by Cro_Addict but others are still allowed to voice their opinion right?

Everyone is entitled to their opinion. If you think someone is gay...fine whatever. But if you knowingly know someone is gay and they don't want to out theirselves yet, I don't think that's right for you to tell everyone that person is gay.

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Originally posted by *~LiSa-LoO~* Everyone is entitled to their opinion. If you think someone is gay...fine whatever. But if you knowingly know someone is gay and they don't want to out theirselves yet, I don't think that's right for you to tell everyone that person is gay.

100% agree.

wouldnt you say most gay ppl are easy to spot?

Perez Hilton has made a living in tabloids by being controversial.

It's a marketing ploy, don't pay much attention to it.

But I do know lots of gay males who, because they are gay, do feel that they have a heightened sense on who is gay and who is not. Regardless of whether they are right or wrong, just because they are gay, I still don't feel it's their right to try and tell people that "so and so" is gay.

I think it's a personal choice, and in all seriousness: who cares?

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Originally posted by Chris Allen But I do know lots of gay males who, because they are gay, do feel that they have a heightened sense on who is gay and who is not.

I don't think it has anything to do with having heightened gay senses. you just need to be observant and judgemental.

Until Lisa's post, i thought you all were just cleverly misspelling "Paris Hilton". But form the sounds of it, doesn't look like he's any better than Paris. Must be something wrong with the Hilton name.

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Originally posted by Cosmic Fur I don't think it has anything to do with having heightened gay senses. you just need to be observant and judgemental. Until Lisa's post, i thought you all were just cleverly misspelling "Paris Hilton". But form the sounds of it, doesn't look like he's any better than Paris. Must be something wrong with the Hilton name.

Perez Hilton

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Originally posted by Chris Allen Perez Hilton has made a living in tabloids by being controversial. It's a marketing ploy, don't pay much attention to it. But I do know lots of gay males who, because they are gay, do feel that they have a heightened sense on who is gay and who is not. Regardless of whether they are right or wrong, just because they are gay, I still don't feel it's their right to try and tell people that "so and so" is gay. I think it's a personal choice, and in all seriousness: who cares?

actually i just thought more about this and i change my mind...

if gay ppl would like all these right and be considered "normal" then having someone "out" them should not be a big deal.

would you get mad if someone told someone else that you are straight...NO...

i would never "out " someone personally, but above point still stands

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Originally posted by Cro_Addict actually i just thought more about this and i change my mind... if gay ppl would like all these right and be considered "normal" then having someone "out" them should not be a big deal. would you get mad if someone told someone else that you are straight...NO... i would never "out " someone personally, but above point still stands

with a lot of these types of issues, the principle of "white man can't call a black man a ****** even if a black man can" comes into play.

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