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People you feel you should like but you don't...
I've been trying to figure this one out. There's a person who I interact with on a rather frequent basis, either in person or over IM. She's really sweet, compassionate, smart, and sincerely means well for those in her life. I have no legit reason not to like her. But she's just not that socially adept and, honestly, quite unattractive (saying this makes me feel like a huge cock, but it's true.) I generally like to think that I'm humane enough to be above such low judgments, but I don't just not have fun when I'm around her, she positively irritates me like no one else does. All of this is making me feel like a horrible person. I feel like I should like her for her humility and empathy since I love those characteristics in others. But somehow it's just not enough for her. I've been trying to force myself to like her, but for some strange reason I can barely tolerate her.
Feel free to share personal stories to alleviate my suffering and let me know I'm not alone (please ?) Am I a shallow ****, or could it be that her and I are just incompatible? She's very innocent and naive, while I'm also naive but much more outgoing and partake in almost every debauchery.
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