There is a line you just don't f&*%ing cross when you're "best friends". My friend is getting married to a douchebag, and I was invited to be the maid of honor. Well, I backed out of that because of health issues (didn't know if I'd be in the hospital at the time of wedding), and so went down to "guest". My mom, boyfriend, and I were all going to go together.
I just get off the phone with her and she tells me her fiance is un-inviting my boyfriend, because he doesn't know him. (mind you, we have tried to get together with them before but unless we drive the 45 min to go see them, they won't meet up... they refuse to meet 1/2 way. And when we did meet them halfway, douchebag fiance couldn't even say hello to my boyfriend)
WTF is that? That's like me saying "oh, I'm getting married. PS your husband can't come because my fiance doesn't like him." Seriously? That's so rude. Especially since my boyfriend was the ONLY person to take care of me after I got sick/had surgery.
PLUS, she's been a shitty friend lately.
c0re version: supposed BFF un-invited my boyfriend to her stupid wedding because her "fiance" said so. Should I say "f" wedding and "f" you to not good friend anymore?
//edit
another tidbit of info: BF & I will have been together well over a year by time of wedding, and exact words of doucebag fiance is "I don't want to pay $30 for him to eat at MY wedding"
Aug-01-2008 23:28
Yan
fauxhawk
Registered: Jul 2003
Location: Wano
Your friend sucks.
On the bright side, you get to be single for a night, if so you choose.
Aug-01-2008 23:31
Meat187
Diese scheiß Katze
Registered: Dec 2007
Location: The Night's Plutonian Shore
Re: wow, I am f*(&ing PISSED.
quote:
Originally posted by squirrelly
I just get off the phone with her and she tells me her fiance is un-inviting my boyfriend, because he doesn't know him.
Well, after all it's his wedding. It's not like she has anything to say, like invite guests she wants to come.
Just call back and say you won't be coming if your bf isn't.
Originally posted by ********
Seplling don't demonstrate intelligence and educatoin - knowing does.
Aug-01-2008 23:35
Yan
fauxhawk
Registered: Jul 2003
Location: Wano
quote:
Originally posted by Clovis
Fuck em both imo.
This can't be literally performed unless they both go to the wedding. Derp.
Aug-01-2008 23:37
DJ_Eternal
Senior tranceaddict
Registered: Mar 2003
Location: Warrington, England
It was pretty pathetic of your friend's fiance not to even try and make nice and be friendly with your boyfriend. Aren't you allowed to bring someone along with you anyway regardless as part of the invitation? I would bring him along anyway if that's the case.
It's your best friend's big day, but she should also respect you enough to know how much your boyfriend means to you and she should have passed that message onto her fiance before meeting halfway. They hadn't even met so what valid reason does he have for not liking him, apart from heresay.
I'd be tempted to call and cancel just to prove a point here and show how much this hurt.
Aug-01-2008 23:37
Yan
fauxhawk
Registered: Jul 2003
Location: Wano
I got it.
Decide to take back being Maid of Honor. Then tell them everything is dandy. Never show up.
Aug-01-2008 23:38
squirrelly
The Phun Nun
Registered: Oct 2003
Location: In the Shower
No, they HAVE met... and when they did her fiance wouldn't even introduce himself, just walked by and ignored him (didn't even ask me how I was doing, even though I was 4 days after my surgery)
They have a "no guest unless you've been together over a year" policy... but we have been, so wtf?
Aug-01-2008 23:39
In The Lobby
Senior tranceaddict
Registered: Jun 2008
Location: Toronto, East York, where da real niggaz bleed
quote:
Originally posted by Yan
I got it.
Decide to take back being Maid of Honor. Then tell them everything is dandy. Never show up.
+1
Aug-01-2008 23:39
Yohan
Champion of Deep&Nu-disco
Registered: Jan 2004
Location: Kitchener, Ont, Soviet Canuckistan
Originally posted by chinamon
not true. i say "ugh"
but i am a tranny.
quote:
Originally posted by kotsy
lol colour me retarded
Aug-01-2008 23:41
Clovis
techno jungle shit
Registered: Apr 2004
Location: Los Angeles
quote:
Originally posted by squirrelly
No, they HAVE met... and when they did her fiance wouldn't even introduce himself, just walked by and ignored him (didn't even ask me how I was doing, even though I was 4 days after my surgery)
They have a "no guest unless you've been together over a year" policy... but we have been, so wtf?
Tell her to fuck off imo.
Not worth keeping friends like that.
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quote:
Originally posted by ********
Seplling don't demonstrate intelligence and educatoin - knowing does.
wow, I am f*(&ing PISSED.
