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Ania_xox
let me drive

Registered: Apr 2007
Location: on the midnight street

Musings for the sausagefest

Hello Men of the COR

My significant other in life has been very bummed lately; he's working a helluva lot and he's very deeply invested in both jobs so a leave of absence is not an option.

This will go on til the end of June and stretches beyond the scope of our relationship so it's nothing that I have to analyze or "fix"

Both of his jobs are intense and emotionally draining and I'm just trying to be there for him and he tells me I'm being great but I want to do more. He gets a bit introverted when he's stressed about his work so I don't want to push him about it when we do have the odd hour or two together.

My question to you is:

What are little things your woman has done that make you happy?

Sloppy beejer? Extra bacon? Leave you the fuck alone?

All answers welcome

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Originally posted by Slylee
oh well, different strokes different vaginas

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May-13-2010 13:31 Poland

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Fledz
Banned

Registered: Sep 2006
Location: London UK

Re: Musings for the sausagefest

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Originally posted by Ania_xox
Leave you the fuck alone?

There's your answer. At times when he wants you to buzz around him like a headless chicken, he'll make sure you know.

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May-13-2010 13:33 Croatia

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ziptnf
Programming your future

Registered: Jun 2008
Location: Louisville, KY

Re: Musings for the sausagefest

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Originally posted by Ania_xox
Leave you the fuck alone?

This, and nothing else. Offer to do anything you can to make him happier, but I'm sure all the man wants is some peace and quiet and if you try to mount/blow him or give him a bunch of bacon he's gonna be like wtf?

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May-13-2010 13:43

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igottaknow
PerfectTeeth R4 Dinosaurs

Registered: Feb 2001
Location: The Future

sounds like its time to move on

May-13-2010 13:45

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infiniteJEST
solipsist sitcom

Registered: Mar 2008
Location: frolicking w/ minstrels, online.

A man needs his solitude.

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May-13-2010 13:47

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david.michael
Supreme tranceaddict

Registered: Sep 2003
Location: Dayton, OH, USA

The simple reality is that every man is different. Things are not that black and white, and you know this particular person better than any of us do.

Personally, I like a little support from my girlfriend when I'm stressing. I don't want her buzzing around like a headless chicken, but a little empathy/support/recognition doesn't hurt and is sufficient for me.

May-13-2010 13:50 United States

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david.michael
Supreme tranceaddict

Registered: Sep 2003
Location: Dayton, OH, USA

Oh, but just to be clear, a sloppy blowjob is never a bad idea. Unless his two jobs are keeping him so busy that he doesn't have time to shower. In which case, take him to the shower with you and give him a sloppy blowjob.

May-13-2010 13:52 United States

Ania_xox
let me drive

Registered: Apr 2007
Location: on the midnight street

I am totally capable of doing that.

It's a sticky situation though
When I'm not dedicating my free time to him, I'm not overly busy.
When I'm not busy, I fill up my schedule with social things.
So several times this week I have peaced the fuck out and gone to another city to spend time with old friends, hung out with my girlfriends, gone to some conferences, worked a lot on my summer research, plus I work like 3 times a week.

I just don't want him to feel that I'm living my life without him.

Again, I would love to talk to him about this and see how he feels about all of it, but I'm not going to because he really doesn't need a deep, reflective conversation right now.

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quote:
Originally posted by Slylee
oh well, different strokes different vaginas

Some dance to remember ~ Some dance to forget

May-13-2010 13:56 Poland

infiniteJEST
solipsist sitcom

Registered: Mar 2008
Location: frolicking w/ minstrels, online.

Why have a deep, reflective conversation when you could have extra bacon & sloppy BJs?

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May-13-2010 14:02

david.michael
Supreme tranceaddict

Registered: Sep 2003
Location: Dayton, OH, USA

SLOPPY BACON-JOB FTW

May-13-2010 14:21 United States

Moral Hazard
Oppressing the 99%

Registered: Mar 2005
Location: with the 1%

Re: Musings for the sausagefest

quote:
Originally posted by Ania_xox
Sloppy beejer, Extra bacon, then Leave him the fuck alone?

Fixed; in that order.

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