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Originally posted by starsearcher Ok then I guess I'll just slap her ass

Gently now. Don't over-do it on the first try...

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Originally posted by rabbitjoker Gently now. Don't over-do it on the first try...

Thanks RJ I'll do my best

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Originally posted by starsearcher Thanks RJ I'll do my best

And remember kids, its not sexual harassment if she enjoys it

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Originally posted by EvilDust Is that the song "Breathe In"? Nice tune... Edit: Nope, it's not...but "Breathe In" is my fave from them...

you got it...signature is from "Let Go". I do love "Breathe In" too...in fact I love the whole Details album.

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Hey, haven't read your replies bcuz you asked for a girls point of view/opin, but I'm relinquishing my keyboard hehehe--->read on

Hello, here's my female suggestion:
1) Don't just look at her, make contact, what have you got to loose?
2) Girls like guys who are not afraid to talk what's on their mind (which should always be a compliment at a first contact) Sounds corny but it works.

So the ideal scenerio should go like this:
You see the girl, you move up closer to her, looked her in the eyes, smile and say
..."Hi!"
Wait for a reply and if it does or doesn't comeback, say
..."I'm (insert starsearcher name here) I've seen you with some friends dancing at ...(give the name of a club & day you've been there often, like...The Guv on Thursday nites)" then (don't even wait for a reply) say
..."You've probably heard this before but you have an amazing look and your a great dancer."

Wait for a reply here. If she confirms she's been there then go for it full blast or use the same comeback--if she says she's never been, say:
..."well you should go bcuz you'd have a great time--and if your ever at ...(name the place and date of the week again) you should wave. I'm usually by (name a spot in the place here) the stage around (insert time here) 1am."
..."A lot of amazing people go there and you'd have a really good time, and I have some good contacts there that can probably get you past the long lineup at the bar for that (name a popular drink here)drink I've seem all the girls ordering"

So know you've just set a date with her. You've set the date, place, location and time. You have max 3 days opportunity within the 3weeks to meetup. After 3 it will never happen. What have you got to loose. Even if she turns you down on the spot atleast you tried. Most likely you won't even see her or anyone else from that train again. And even people that are listening in won't really think your trying to pick her up. Of course you've got to do it convincingly. So practice with some girls that are friends.
Also, speaking up makes you look like a really self confident guy and girls like that. Good Luck! From Pat

And back to me--->B4k-oz hehehe
Later

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Did you just seriously tell him to walk up to a random chick, tell her to be at a particular club on a certain night, and expect her to actually show up? You know, even with an ego the size of mine... i just can't fucking see that working Just get her number and take her out to for a cup of coffee sometime. See if she's worth the trouble, then take it further if you want.

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Originally posted by d!abolic Did you just seriously tell him to walk up to a random chick, tell her to be at a particular club on a certain night, and expect her to actually show up? You know, even with an ego the size of mine... i just can't fucking see that working Just get her number and take her out to for a cup of coffee sometime. See if she's worth the trouble, then take it further if you want.

Wow.....let me correct your assumption......my girl Pat posted that suggestion. It's a women's perspective. Definately not mine.

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Originally posted by b4k-oz Hey, haven't read your replies bcuz you asked for a girls point of view/opin, but I'm relinquishing my keyboard hehehe--->read on Hello, here's my female suggestion: 1) Don't just look at her, make contact, what have you got to loose? 2) Girls like guys who are not afraid to talk what's on their mind (which should always be a compliment at a first contact) Sounds corny but it works. So the ideal scenerio should go like this: You see the girl, you move up closer to her, looked her in the eyes, smile and say ..."Hi!" Wait for a reply and if it does or doesn't comeback, say ..."I'm (insert starsearcher name here) I've seen you with some friends dancing at ...(give the name of a club & day you've been there often, like...The Guv on Thursday nites)" then (don't even wait for a reply) say ..."You've probably heard this before but you have an amazing look and your a great dancer." Wait for a reply here. If she confirms she's been there then go for it full blast or use the same comeback--if she says she's never been, say: ..."well you should go bcuz you'd have a great time--and if your ever at ...(name the place and date of the week again) you should wave. I'm usually by (name a spot in the place here) the stage around (insert time here) 1am." ..."A lot of amazing people go there and you'd have a really good time, and I have some good contacts there that can probably get you past the long lineup at the bar for that (name a popular drink here)drink I've seem all the girls ordering" So know you've just set a date with her. You've set the date, place, location and time. You have max 3 days opportunity within the 3weeks to meetup. After 3 it will never happen. What have you got to loose. Even if she turns you down on the spot atleast you tried. Most likely you won't even see her or anyone else from that train again. And even people that are listening in won't really think your trying to pick her up. Of course you've got to do it convincingly. So practice with some girls that are friends. Also, speaking up makes you look like a really self confident guy and girls like that. Good Luck! From Pat And back to me--->B4k-oz hehehe Later

Um..that sounds like a lot of work.

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Originally posted by Trancewave Um..that sounds like a lot of work.

I agree with you, but she swears it will work. She says it works for both males and females really great. She also suggests inviting someone over for a poker nite. She's helped her friends meet loads of guys that way and I'm sure vice versa.

LOL I kinda was direct with her when I met her. Only our meet wasn't preplanned...it was spontaneous and it turned out fine for us. We've been together now for several years.

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Originally posted by b4k-oz Wow.....let me correct your assumption......my girl Pat posted that suggestion. It's a women's perspective. Definately not mine.

Hahah! (go back and read what i said earlier about women's perspectives on dating). I don't mean to be a prick (and to give her credit, the dialogue walkthrough seems pretty solid), but.. man, i don't even know where to begin. I mean, if you run into an attractive girl who's a great dancer at a club, why not just introduce yourself then and there?

Last edited by d!abolic on Jul-11-2004 at 23:19

dude, you just SAW her.

how do you know she's not a total bitch?

bahhh...i say write a little note with ur name, number and a funny drawing....and toss it her way
lol

(dunno..jsut a thoguth..i think i should try it some time)

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