I'm a nice guy...

so am i but i can pay the bill so thats an added bonus...sleep with me!

not u dave

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Originally posted by DigitalMP accept what? doing something nice for him that she doesn't mind doing?

ROFL!!! omg ... how naive!

define that please, if you would be so kind!


...here self-respect?

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Originally posted by DigitalMP what's going through your mind probably isn't what's going through her mind.

and yea ... i guess NOT!

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Originally posted by d!abolic Because i'm not in it for the sex alone. And even if i were, she'd still put out sooner for a man who has principles and isn't afraid to stand up for them. And why would i reward her with anything BUT sex FOR sex? She's enjoying it even more than i am!

exactly. it's not like the guy is the only one enjoying sex ...it's hardly something a women could "reward" a guy with in my opinion. if she cares about you she'd probably want to have sex with you... right?

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Originally posted by disko-kandi ROFL!!! omg ... how naive! define that please, if you would be so kind! ...here self-respect? and yea ... i guess NOT!

wow...holy hostility!

look, if he insists and insists, should she start a fight? no, maybe it's not worth that when she finds way to play her part on her own, as she does.

you may see is as less than self-respectful, but this short movie could very well be playing out in your mind much differently than it is in her life.

she's happy, and that's all that matters. as long as he's not physically or emotionally abusing her, and they're both smiling, there are no problems. let's leave well enough alone when that's the case.

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Originally posted by DigitalMP It wasn't advice, it was moreso that when she sucked up and went against her own rules, she still couldn't resist the cock.

ROFL.

OMG !!! Disko-kandi, you have taken what I said totally wrong. The back rub thing is not sexual at all. Self-respect? I have plenty of it. I think you jumped off the handle on this one, making assumptions that are 100% false ! Our relationship is totally fair, money wise also! Our relationship is exremely healthy and balanced, who are you to say that it isn't. For example, I just got back from dinner with my bf, and I filled up his car with gas. Thats fair, he paid for dinner, I paid for gas.

There is nothing I hate more then people making assumptions !

Thanks for defending me Dave !

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Originally posted by Vivid Boy but ok u let it slip the second time thinking ah we live in hard knock society not everyone can have money when they feel...so he calls u up the next day u start chit chatting and u find out hes not a student and he doesnt work..his future plans are zilch...but hes a nice guy right? are you still gonna sleep with him? even tho hes a nice guy? man no offense but if u answer yes ur one of those naive chix that fall in love with loser idiots and end up having 6 kids and live on welfare...all because he was a nice guy and a lil bit strapped for cash

This is unacceptable for any girl or guy to do on a date. Freeloaders suck ! All I am saying is if a guy doesn't pay for everything on a first date, it doesn't mean I will or won't go home with him. There are other things that matter so much more. I agree with you about the person who won't offer to contribute, that is rude.

I pay.

They way I figure is this: either way, one day the bank accounts are going to be joined - so whether I pay or she pays, we both end up paying.

Capiche? ja

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Originally posted by PartEgurl So basically guys, don't listen to this advice. And girls, buy boys drinks !![/COLOR]

LMAO, way to contradict!

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Originally posted by rabbitjoker I pay.

NOO WAYY

blah,,

i think i it should be equal in paying she and me both can pay, but i think the gentleman i am , i always pay.

anyhow, boys and girls you only live once, enjoy it while you can.

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Originally posted by rabbitjoker I pay. They way I figure is this: either way, one day the bank accounts are going to be joined - so whether I pay or she pays, we both end up paying. Capiche? ja

ding ding ding... we have a winner

thats the right attitude

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