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Sorry for the delay, Psy-T, I was busy with work 
| quote: | Originally posted by donnybrasco
Hey Lira;
I like reading your posts. You seem very bright and considerate.
As for the other person I was refering to on another board who's disruptive, it's not a political board...and her craziness manifests itself in the form of being irrelevant and annoying to the members, much like Sol G.
He may get bored and leave by being ignored, but if it's going to go that route anyway, why not just throw him out sooner? Especially if he's going to work so hard to turn a serious board in to a mockery.
I mean it when I said I stopped coming in here for awhile because of people like him. It's just down-right emabarrassing to be affiliated with a board that's over-run with people like that. |
| quote: | Originally posted by Psy-T
more effective? i doubt it - this solution required the least effort, solved the problem immediately, and left no negative impact aside from the potential one of free speech that we're discussing here; on the other hand, had we just been indifferent to him, we would have potentially seen our forum being degarded; instead of potentially attracting the 'kind' of members we want here (ones who are at least familiar with the workings of a debate), we'd be attracting 'undesirables'. |
If the both of you are saying that his threads might attract more people like him, then I'd say you guys are right: I avoid some forums whenever I think they are "dull", for example. In this sense, I wish he could be a more productive member for this community.
| quote: | Originally posted by Psy-T
the subargument you give (consciously or not) of solgrabber challenging our m.o. and perheps aiming to replace it with something 'better' is null because his alternative was not better in any way. |
It's not a matter of being better, though, but a test of how we can deal with difficult situations - I mean, dealing with someone as obsessed as Sol is sure a tough mission.
| quote: | Originally posted by Psy-T
not when the order takes account of that fact and includes principles that can assist that within itself. |
Well, it would require changes nonetheless.
| quote: | Originally posted by Psy-T
so what hypothetical benefit might we have gotten from accepting solgrabber as a member into our group? |
- Tolerance: Accepting someone like him would certainly makes us more tolerant with extremely different points of view (and obsessive behaviours
). Once you can tolerate extremists, moderates are a lot easier to deal with.
- Case Studies: I remember that, back when I was a mod, I used to "study" the users that caused problems. Who were they? Why were they a problem? Did they change?
More often than not, their behaviour was not much different from what we see in real life, which counts as "experience" in some way. This way, we would be able to base our opinions on facts.
- Mockery: If all else failed, we could always mock him and have a laughing stock until he gave up/in

| quote: | Originally posted by Psy-T
i dont agree that leaving should come with time; the so called member should not even become one if he shares no common interests with the group, or more appropriately in this case - language. |
He was interested on politics, if you ignore the "spam hypothesis", so it would be a common interest (albeit the only one ). As for the language, why do you say that? His English didn't seem to be bad 
| quote: | Originally posted by Psy-T
as for the second part of that paragraph, you probably know they don't apply in this case (which was a rather extreme exception), and that we agree on them, theoretically aswell as practically. |
I don't know - for curiosity's sake, I wonder what would've happened of he weren't suspended. Wouldn't people grow tired of him and just ignore him just like Arcadia in the CORe? In the beginning, there was a great commotion over his existence, and now he's just another member.
| quote: | Originally posted by Psy-T
basically i'm saying that there are and/or should be (more) limitations on who can become a member of our group (but not arbitrary limitations). |
That all depends on the community we want to be part of, I reckon. I openly admit that I'd be more confortable in an open community (i.e. without limitations) but, since my first goal here is to debate, and the majority approves such limitations, then it doesn't bother me that much - it's a good topic for another discussion 
(I'm replying your e-mail tomorrow)
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