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And btw thank you akridot!
The way I see it is, he’s clearly not an idiot, yet he is chosing to be. He wants to fuck me, plain and simple. I’m confident that he likes my personality too and would probably like to date me seriously, but the bottom line is that he thinks that he has a chance of scoring with me. I have made it CRYSTAL clear to him that I’m depressed about my breakup and whatnot. I don’t really call him back, I’m always declining dates with him… So I see it as he’s a big boy and he needs to smarten up and take a hint. But you men can’t do that. You’re always thinking with your penises and trying to get in our pants. And while he’s a nice guy, he also has a penis, so I don’t feel THAT bad for him. But I will still give him the respect of some straight-forwardness since I did kiss him that one night while drunk. I admit to that being stupid. I’m gonna lay it out for him in an email. I’m not going to have a bite to eat with him to tell him this because I don’t owe him anything face to face. I’m not breaking up with the guy, I’m just letting him know I’m not available for anything other than friendship and he can take that or leave it. |
I love how you give the blanket knock on all men, then you say, I did kiss him. That one kiss totally nullifies all your rejections, especially if thats the last experience you two had together.
Im in the same situation right now, though kissing has happened several times (ocassionally with no inebriation), and she says shit to me like, 'I could spend everyday with you.' Guys often think with their dicks, ill fully agree, but girls send mixed messages and expect everything to be kosher. No ones hands are clean
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