when a girl meets a nice guy and they become friends, even if she finds him attractive later on and really really likes him, she most probably wouldnt tell you that b/c she loves the friendship (its not easy to find a nice guy and be friends with him)
so if you find your girl friend attractive, nice and a bag of chips , you have to consider whether she might be into you or not, then you have to come out and let her know, you never know, feelings might be mutual

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Originally posted by apri_peel when a girl meets a nice guy and they become friends, even if she finds him attractive later on and really really likes him, she most probably wouldnt tell you that b/c she loves the friendship (its not easy to find a nice guy and be friends with him)

this brings us right back to the 'love or friendship' question on a nother thread... great.. one huuge circle

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Originally posted by apri_peel when a girl meets a nice guy and they become friends, even if she finds him attractive later on and really really likes him, she most probably wouldnt tell you that b/c she loves the friendship (its not easy to find a nice guy and be friends with him)

i dont think guys and girls could ever be "just" friends

Well I think guys and girls COULD be just friends cuz I have a few yes, but from the moment you look at a girl as something more (or even the possibility of there being anything more than friendship) then it'll mess things up...happened to me a few times. Cuz then you can't look at the person the same way again, being their friend would just hurt too much because you can't be with them in that way. I see what you're saying...

this is how it works for guys:

if they say they like you as just a friend, then that means they think you're fat and ugly and don't want to hurt your feelings by saying so because it's too much of hassle

if you just hang out and you don't classify it as anything, then that means he wants to bop you but is afraid of embarassing himself so he keeps it at a buddy buddy level hoping that it will eventually escalate without any awkwardness.

then there's fuck buddies.

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your friend can also be of opposite sex, attractive but just not your type

it IS hard to be friends with someone you're attracted to
my bf and i considering a break and staying just friends during that break but i can already imagine how hard its gonna be just to keep my hands from him

relationships and friendships can be very frustrating, unfortunately, there is not book of rules to live by. some of us find ways to deal with all the issues without major problems, some of us struggle but there is no right and wrong

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Originally posted by Damo this is how it works for guys: if they say they like you as just a friend, then that means they think you're fat and ugly and don't want to hurt your feelings by saying so because it's too much of hassle if you just hang out and you don't classify it as anything, then that means he wants to bop you but is afraid of embarassing himself so he keeps it at a buddy buddy level hoping that it will eventually escalate without any awkwardness. then there's fuck buddies.

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I can tell you people: this is the truth (and I must say, I am shocked to find myself fit in this EXACTLY )

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damo, you really should get rid of gigi in you avator....
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Originally posted by apri_peel nice girls are hard to find if all the girls you hang out with are bitches. you really have to look since nice girls are most of the time shy, quite, and not very popular so you dont notice them you really have to look beyond your friend circle, and beyond girls you would usually go for. look for the quiet ones, that hang out with mostly girls and are kinda on their own. also, you can work your networks. if you've got friends whom you dont really hang out with, they might have friends who happen to be nice girls trust me, im speaking from experience. (im one of them what you would call nice girls and thats how i met my bf who was sort of the more popular kids in our high school, those who never associate themselves with ppl like myself and my friends) there might be other ways of finding nice girls, but the above is also true, in most cases i would say. good luck to you

See there is a little problem here. I am kind of a shy guy. Well at least at first I am. Once I get to know some somebody, I can just yap on for hours at a time. It is usually pretty hard to strike a conversation with a girl that is shy too. I wasn't really a popular kid in high school. I didn't really hand around with "COOL" crowd. I guess I am just doomed with dealing with bitches all the time. Thanks a lot for you advice

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Originally posted by kr00t0n My problem exactly. Over 3 years, I've met 4 incredible girls, but all they ever want is to be my friend. Then they get together with jerks who hurt them. *sigh* It's just not fair.

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Originally posted by Endlesswave Man, I dun understand it. "Let's be friends" so then they can go and be with an asshole who treats them like shit and then they complain to us how they want a nice guy who is standing RIGHT in front of them staring them in the face. Why is love so BLIND?!?!?!?

You know what I think the problem is. I know this might sound weird to some, but from what I've seen over the years a lot of women like to be treated like shit. The worst you treat them, the more they are all over you. I'll give you an example. This girl "FRIEND" I know she had a boyfriend that treated her like a queen, anything she would ask, he would do for her. Guess what she breakes up with him for ano appearant reason. Starts going out with the next guy, that totally treats her like shit. Level of shitness is that if I ever found out where he lives, I would propably put him in the wheel chair. . And she has been with him for like 3 years now. She is a really hot chick. I mean she can do way better than that. Now tell me if that isn't just pure stupidity!!

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Originally posted by kolkiewolkie fuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuccccccckkkkkkkk I can tell you people: this is the truth (and I must say, I am shocked to find myself fit in this EXACTLY ) [offtopic] damo, you really should get rid of gigi in you avator.... [/offtopic]

hahah, i just like the way it looks, don't particularly care for gigi musically.

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Originally posted by DJ RozzeR My Girlfriend is a nyphomanic and she loves trance , so im the happyiest manin the world :]

You're lucky! Over here in USA, it's HARD to find a nice girl who is addicted to Trance (most girls over here are into Rap, R+B, Pop/Rock/Soul, "Hip-Hop", Asian Pop (they're starting to get into Rap more and more), etc.) I haven't met ONE PERSON (girl or bloke) who's into Trance. This also means that 90%+ of all of my friends are into the above genres........

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Originally posted by ali92 You're lucky! Over here in USA, it's HARD to find a nice girl who is addicted to Trance (most girls over here are into Rap, R+B, Pop/Rock/Soul, "Hip-Hop", Asian Pop (they're starting to get into Rap more and more), etc.) I haven't met ONE PERSON (girl or bloke) who's into Trance. This also means that 90%+ of all of my friends are into the above genres........

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same here man, i know a few people who like house and euro but it's just not the same. A nympho trancer, can't top that,fuck.

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