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Originally posted by jennypie It's not about being a prick. It's about being trusted to be in control/have the power and not abuse it. And what? You've never fantasized about having a woman be subservient to you?

Ok, I admit to that. But it's not about being 'in control' that makes the fantasy attractive. I think it's just the power to say, 'sex...now!' and have it obeyed. Thinking of your own physical desire and being able to satisfy it at any time. The straps, gags, bondage, really have no appeal to me.

Sub and Dom fantasy in a sense that the act itself isn't one or the other, but just the idea of when that act occurs comes from one partner.

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Originally posted by jennypie having a woman be subservient to you?

both this and the opposite are fucking awesome.

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Originally posted by Sly_Guy Ok, I admit to that. But it's not about being 'in control' that makes the fantasy attractive. I think it's just the power to say, 'sex...now!' and have it obeyed. Thinking of your own physical desire and being able to satisfy it at any time. The straps, gags, bondage, really have no appeal to me. Sub and Dom fantasy in a sense that the act itself isn't one or the other, but just the idea of when that act occurs comes from one partner.

Huh? No, you're wrong...it's much deeper than that...and it's definitely a two person exchange. Hot, imo.

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Originally posted by jennypie Huh? No, you're wrong...it's much deeper than that...and it's definitely a two person exchange. Hot, imo.

Yes, it's a two person exchange where one person is in control of the direction of the encounter. Basically, the way I see it is as a one person encounter, where the second party is an extension on the first person's will. But what about that makes it hot? Trust is not a means of getting off in itself, at least to me. [I'm asking in all seriousness, because I'ma need a good answer, or at least I expect to need one soon]

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Originally posted by Sly_Guy Yes, it's a two person exchange where one person is in control of the direction of the encounter. Basically, the way I see it is as a one person encounter, where the second party is an extension on the first person's will. But what about that makes it hot? Trust is not a means of getting off in itself, at least to me. [I'm asking in all seriousness, because I'ma need a good answer, or at least I expect to need one soon]

What makes it hot is realizing that it's not just one person in control of the direction of the encounter.

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Originally posted by jennypie What makes it hot is realizing that it's not just one person in control of the direction of the encounter.

then the answer still escapes me. Maybe I'm just too uppity to be dominated...

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Originally posted by Sly_Guy then the answer still escapes me. Maybe I'm just too uppity to be dominated...

in any dom/sub play, the person with the power is the SUB because they have the safeword. power is something you have to willing give up in sex play.

yeesh, didnt u guys watch that episode of CSI with mistress heather? (one of my favorites)

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Originally posted by lilmau5

bahaha. eww.

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Originally posted by preppie chick bahaha. eww.

lol I was about to say

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ahahahaha.... wow slyguy you could not have provided more entertainment for me while i sip my coffee. and people call me a noob... lol

ps. why dont more girls swallow? (def gonna get some bad impressions now haha)

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