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| quote: | Originally posted by jennypie
B. I've only had 2 major relationships since I was 17, one of which lasted 4 years. I don't think relationships last 4 years if the guy is an asshole OR as whipped as a 'shit tossing monkey'. |
Although I'm clearly not qualified to make a call on how good your relationship was, I would like to point out that the duration of the relationship really means nothing.
People get into horrible relationships for all lengths of time and often just can't get out of them. Look how long our friend speedracer_mec was with his "significant other" (I know you haven't been posting in chillout for a long time and, even then, don't bother to pay attention to what most other people say, but try to understand, the entire forum yelled at him for months to dump her and he couldn't do it). Hell, tons of women marry those abusive guys and get beaten for 30 years before they do anything about it.
In fact the longest-lasting relationships are often the most unbalanced because their lasting time hinges on one partner's insecurity. Again, not trying to pass judgment on you, and I honestly don't think you needed to try to prove how good your relationship was, but if you're going to try then that's not a very valid "proof".
To be honest, the fact that you're chasing after a gay guy right now (to the extent of posting about it on a message board) doesn't exactly speak positively of your alleged perfect emotional balance.
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