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Originally posted by Redeye "how can something that feels so right, be so wrong"

If it's with the wrong person.

if she acts weird on you all of a sudden, theres a big chance she might be onto you. differs in every girls but in my experience. sometimes girls give u those stares like wtf am i supposed to do, they're the dominant one's that knows how to ride it baybee yeehawwww

It may be hard to figure out. However, if she gives you the side looks or smiles at you more than she should, then she is not indifferent to you.

Happened many times, usually it is true. Too bad that my "playa" skills are insufficient and I would majorly fuck up at some point...

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It just sucks how, to find out, you're putting yourself at risk. I could just walk right up to the girl in question one day, while she's at her locker or whatever, or even walking in the hall, and ask her straight out.

And if it turns out to be false, it's mondo embarassing, and WAY too ackward.

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Originally posted by Turbonium It just sucks how, to find out, you're putting yourself at risk. I could just walk right up to the girl in question one day, while she's at her locker or whatever, or even walking in the hall, and ask her straight out. And if it turns out to be false, it's mondo embarassing, and WAY too ackward.

On the other hand. What do you have to lose? What will change? Nothing...

I am trying to convince myself in this manner. However, before I act, a sudden lock-up takes place inside of my body and my brain involuntarily seeks for a reason not to act.

It will take time...

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Originally posted by Turbonium It just sucks how, to find out, you're putting yourself at risk. I could just walk right up to the girl in question one day, while she's at her locker or whatever, or even walking in the hall, and ask her straight out. And if it turns out to be false, it's mondo embarassing, and WAY too ackward.

Go for humor "Hey, wanna go grab some coffee, or am I a total faglord that you dont want to be seen in public with"

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Originally posted by Orbax Go for humor "Hey, wanna go grab some coffee, or am I a total faglord that you dont want to be seen in public with"

Yea, but that's not finding out conclusively.

well she either goes to coffee with your or says youre a faglord. id say its pretty conclusive

Damn nobody's really answered the poor guy's question so far. Nothing concrete.

Lips parted = attraction
Touches you = attraction
Looks you in the eyes and doesn't "let go" = possibly attraction, possibly a smart person just playing you
Legs open = attraction (And I don't mean "OH HUMP ME" kind of legs open, I mean instead of having her legs crossed)
Thinks everything you say is funny = either attraction or trying to suck up to you

It's also good to notice if she gets crow's feet when she smiles. If it's someone from far away and you want to know if she's been checking you out, look down at your watch, or your papers, something of the sort. Then you quickly glance her way. If she's watching you, it should startle her, and she will do whatever it was you were doing, as it was the last action in her memory.

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Originally posted by Orbax well she either goes to coffee with your or says youre a faglord. id say its pretty conclusive

You really think so? It's just coffee. Honestly, just because a girl accepts to go out for a coffee with you, doesn't mean she has a thing for you.

Maybe some of the ladies on the forum could give us some insight on this?

You should never allow a girl to take the dominant position in a situation like this. Start pretending like you don't give a fizzuck about her. If she doesn't go out of her way to let you know that she is still around... you're shit out of luck. Sure, there are a lot of girls out there who might be a bit into you and they're just going to give it up if you ignore them. The ones that turn out to be keepers, though, are the ones that are willing to play the role of the cat and the mouse.

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Originally posted by Turbonium You really think so? It's just coffee. Honestly, just because a girl accepts to go out for a coffee with you, doesn't mean she has a thing for you. Maybe some of the ladies on the forum could give us some insight on this?

well...any "date" isnt really conclusive. I know a lot of girls who go on dates because they dont want to say no or feel bad for the loser.

Your job is to 1)get them alone 2) get them interested.

#1 should lead to #2 intrinsically. Its usually pretty obvious whats up when you get them away from everyone they know and where they are comfortable at. If they are comfortable (attracted to) with you doesnt matter where you are. Theyll be nice and conversation shall flow like vodka. but if it wasnt meant to be... whaddya gonna do. PS never pay for their shit when you go out the first time. You arent her fucking boyfriend.