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Originally posted by *~LiSa-LoO~* *hugs* It gets better. I speak from experience, it is possible to stay friends with your ex.

depends how/why you broke up;
there is a good possibility, no doubt about it.

In reponse to the theme of this thread, once you broke up, you don't go back. Breaking up is a one time deal, if you couldn't work your problems in the first place you're most likely to break up again. Staying friends is alright, that's something some of us could live with.


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Last edited by Al on Feb-23-2007 at 16:47

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Originally posted by DJ_Elyot Just DL some porn and jack off a few times. If you don't want her afterwards, then you never really wanted her anyway.

hahahahaha....it works tooo

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Originally posted by jeeper_095 hahahahaha....it works tooo

Well, it's what some people need to avoid wanting somebody for the wrong reasons. If you jack off and STILL want her NEVERTHELESS, then you truly have feelings for her.

In an ideal relationship, you would want to be with the person both before and after masturbating.

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Originally posted by DJ_Elyot In an ideal relationship, you would want to be with the person both before and after masturbating.

Fucking SIG-WORTHY post right here.

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Originally posted by Cosmic Fur Fucking SIG-WORTHY post right here.

+1

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Originally posted by Cosmic Fur ahahaha and texts from her too, right? Something along the lines of, "AJ, I think you're so fucking hot"?

OMG!

"I think you're so ducking hot."

That was bad.

P.S.

SORRY TO ANYBODY ELSE WHO RECEIVED WEIRD MESSAGES OR CALLS LAST FRIDAY NIGHT!

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Originally posted by Cosmic Fur Fucking SIG-WORTHY post right here.

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Originally posted by *TiEsTo*SuX* LOL...I swear you are exactly like my sister....you two should become friends lol

i hope she is good looking.

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Originally posted by jeeper_095 depends how/why you broke up; there is a good possibility, no doubt about it.

Yes, the reason why you broke up I would say is a definite factor, as well as how much each of you want to stay friends. I dated Josh for 2 years on and off, yet he is still my best friend to this day, and in fact our friendship is the best it's ever been. But we broke up on good terms, and both didn't want it to affect our friendship. *and that's all I'm going to say about my personal life on the boards*

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Originally posted by jeeper_095 In reponse to the theme of this thread, once you broke up, you don't go back. Breaking up is a one time deal, if you couldn't work your problems in the first place you're most likely to break up again. Staying friends is alright, that's something some of us could live with.

I agree and disagree with this statement. I think the key thing is that you tried to work out your problems in the first place. If you just gave up and broke up due to problems, and then got back together and actively tried to fix the problems I think it could work. But if you tried to fix the problems the first time around and it didn't work, then I don't see it being any different the second time.

The other thing too is time...how long you've been apart, and how much each of you has grown as a person. People do change.

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Originally posted by *~LiSa-LoO~* Yes, the reason why you broke up I would say is a definite factor, as well as how much each of you want to stay friends. I dated Josh for 2 years on and off, yet he is still my best friend to this day, and in fact our friendship is the best it's ever been. But we broke up on good terms, and both didn't want it to affect our friendship. *and that's all I'm going to say about my personal life on the boards* I agree and disagree with this statement. I think the key thing is that you tried to work out your problems in the first place. If you just gave up and broke up due to problems, and then got back together and actively tried to fix the problems I think it could work. But if you tried to fix the problems the first time around and it didn't work, then I don't see it being any different the second time. The other thing too is time...how long you've been apart, and how much each of you has grown as a person. People do change.

100% agree. People don't always break up because they hate each other. Sometimes, for whatever reason, they just don't desire romantic involvement with anyone at a particular time. Always stay friends.

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Originally posted by DJ_Elyot 100% agree. People don't always break up because they hate each other. Sometimes, for whatever reason, they just don't desire romantic involvement with anyone at a particular time. Always stay friends.

That's close to my case. She had started wondering about her life direction as soon as she turned 26... like a quarter-life crisis.

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