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| quote: | Originally posted by Fpcookie
if she has feelings for him you just have to trust that he will shut her down if she makes some move or whatever.
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ok but then if that's the case, then i want to know why it's worth it to him to keep her around rather than just say ah fuck it, since he's got this great new girl he is supposedly nuts about. why would he even create this whole situation?
they don't have kids together and from what i gather, they aren't like big family friends or anything. she's just a regular ol' ex gf whom he was nothing but disfunctional with and it's only been 8 months since they broke up and she is already like living with another bf. seems to me like he was rebound or something and she just jumped into the first thing after my guy broke up with her.
if i was friends with an ex and i had this great new guy i was dating, the LAST fucking thing on earth i would do is be like 'hey i want you to meet my ex bf, he is a great guy, you have nothing to worry about!"
new boyfriend > old boyfriend...i dont care what the circumstances are. i'm starting something new with the new guy, not my ex.
it's mostly just about what his priorities are and about respect. not about me thinking there is something going on. that's all.
i will be able to think more clearly about all of this once i meet her though (as u can see i'm sort of back and forth about it). that's going to be the deal breaker. i can read people and situations pretty accurately.
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| quote: | Originally posted by notelfreak
man i can't believe i tried to come off as responsible in that other thread, i am so full of shit just don't tell anyone |
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