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| quote: | Originally posted by kaniz
wow, if your that co-dependent on each other that you guys cant even go to different rooms of the same club - then you have issues.
In terms of feeling well: Yes, that is something I'll deal with, because you know - it's my partner, and they are feeling sick - and it'd be an asshole thing to do to send them home sick so you can keep on partying.
That said, if someone wants to leave earlier than the other person - give them a hug & kiss goodnight, and be on your way. Now and then this can lead to an awkward moment here and there, but there's been more than once where my partner has left before me, or I've left before my partner. Really, its no big deal.
Also, paying for everything - umm, maybe in the first stages of courtship, or if it's something that you really want to do - but they were not as interested in. But after any significant period of time of dating - the other person really should start paying their own way IMO.
If you have any sense of independence, 90% of what you went off about is really a non-issue. |
lol. that's what i was thinking.
that's why it sounded weird to me.
if your partner is sick at the club, you better be ready to leave and not make them feel like a loser about it. if fact, i have left clubs for friends not just partners. there will always be another party.
i love having someone to hang out with at the club. it's so strange going alone (even with friends, it's not the same) but on the other hand I am ok exploring on my own and can take of myself and that i know my partner doesn't need to worry about "taking care of me".
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