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I'm not opposed to the idea of having children, I just don't have any interest in them whatsoever, or am remotely excited by the idea. I have more excitement about the idea of one day having my own dog - I sometimes think about what breed I'd have, what gender, one or two, even put thought into how I'd raise them. I imagine these are the kind of thoughts that people who are genuinely excited about having kids have about their future offspring. Likewise, when I meet someone's dog, particularly a puppy, I'm incredibly fussy over it and it gives me a warm glow inside. Whenever people have come around with a baby, everyone else might be cooing over it but I am utterly unmoved. It's just a baby. My only emotion towards young children is occasional worry, that I might scare the baby and make it cry, and perhaps implant some life-long phobia or neurosis in its nascent mind as a result.
My over-riding response to the question is usually "If it would make my partner happy", but perhaps I shouldn't have kids because I probably wouldn't show them enough love, and fuck them up as a result of that.
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Mixes:
> Maximum Elevation [Progressive House]
> DI.FM 26th Anniversary Guest Mix [Progressive House]
> Live @ Dance:Love:Hub London, 11.10.2025
> Higher Peaks [Progressive House]
> Dance:Love:Hub Afterparty (The Return) 23.11.24
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