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Originally posted by Mr. Pink my problem is that i always got bored with the girl and found something "wrong" with them. not sayin that they actually had something wrong with them, but they had something wrong for me.....they weren't meant to be mine, and i could see that. So i move on- ALL THE TIME. thats why i only had one gf.......cuz for a girl to be my GF she's gotta be pretty damn special

see i think i've learned from my last relationship is that you gotta have your own life. don't be so dependent on your gf/bf...stay busy and see each other when you can. i think that is the key

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Originally posted by Floorfiller see i think i've learned from my last relationship is that you gotta have your own life. don't be so dependent on your gf/bf...stay busy and see each other when you can. i think that is the key

YES!!!!!!!!!!!!! Very true!

that is somethign i learned too! We're brain twins!

but seriously, it is imperative to have your own life, do your own thing- when you see each other its all the more special.

giving some one their space, letting them live their lives and vice versa is the best way to go about things. Then when she wants, she can hang with you and your friends, blablablabla but it all has to take a natural course. Nothing forced.

i ocmpletely agree/

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I want to be with someone that wants to be with me as much as I want to be with him. Sounds simple? It is. I refuse to chase after someone. Life is too short to always be wondering what the other person is thinking. You may think it is fun at first, but then it gets old. I want to be sure of who I am with. I want him to be sure of me as well. I don't play games. I did enough of that when I was younger and played shit like hide and seek. I don't play hide and seek with my feelings.



In order for me to be happy I need to connect with someone in the following ways:


Mentally
Intellectually
Emotionally
Physically
Spiritually


In order for me to fall in love with someone I need to have reverence for him...something that I currently have.


I wrote this once to someone and it is worth repeating because I truly feel this way...


I don't want someone to just add color to my life...I have friends that do that everyday. I want someone that will come into my life who's presence will have such an affect on me that it leaves me breathless to the point that I am brought to my knees from overwhelming feelings and emotions. Someone that when I look at him I feel profound love, respect, amazement, and adoration. In one word...reverence.

thats how i am ive planned my life without some chick on my side...and ill keep working on my plan, if i never get a girl on my right arm and a bottle of chrystail on the other ill subsitute the chick for a beer

plus why the fuck are u people searching fpor love? love isnt wonderful love is shit..love will fuck u up make u have no direction...if i ever saw cupid id kick his motherfuckin ass and stab him in the head with an arrow

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Originally posted by trancebrat I don't want someone to just add color to my life...I have friends that do that everyday. I want someone that will come into my life who's presence will have such an affect on me that it leaves me breathless to the point that I am brought to my knees from overwhelming feelings and emotions. Someone that when I look at him I feel profound love, respect, amazement, and adoration. In one word...reverence.

that's a good quote...i like that. that's the way i wanna make a woman feel. just gotta wait for it to happen hehehe

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Originally posted by Floorfiller that's a good quote...i like that. that's the way i wanna make a woman feel. just gotta wait for it to happen hehehe

Anything less than that is settling.

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Originally posted by Vivid Boy plus why the fuck are u people searching fpor love? love isnt wonderful love is shit..love will fuck u up make u have no direction...if i ever saw cupid id kick his motherfuckin ass and stab him in the head with an arrow

Ahem...my doesn't someone sound bitter.

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Originally posted by trancebrat Ahem...my doesn't someone sound bitter.

not really..id kick anyones ass if they wore diapers and ran around with a bow and arrow

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Originally posted by Vivid Boy not really..id kick anyones ass if they wore diapers and ran around with a bow and arrow

Bully!

sometimes I run around in my diapers, are you gonna stab me?