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Originally posted by kadomony that being said, it's still up to the guy to do all he can to make the experience as enjoyable as possible for both parties.

That is such BULL SHIT! LOL
WTF??? Where do you get these ideas? You make dating sound like a monolithic male burden!
Damn son... you sound like you've been dating prissy snots.

It's not "up to" anyone to do anything. You're going out b/c there's something connecting you and you want to explore that. Why should this situation be clouded over with conventions and rules and traditional roles?

First date of my longest relationship... it was a day date and at one point I bought us both frozen yogurt. We were talking so much that neither of us noticed who paid and we laughed about it later.

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Originally posted by Slylee oh well, different strokes different vaginas

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Originally posted by tubularbills hey, if she wants to get preggorz, she's gotta be just as much into it. if she can't get me to get it up, well then she ain't gettin' my seed , yo

agreed, but i mean it's mainly up to the guy to build the attraction up to a level where the girl feels comfortable giving an equal amount.
inter-dependence, not co-dependence.

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Originally posted by Ania_xox It's not "up to" anyone to do anything. You're going out b/c there's something connecting you and you want to explore that. Why should this situation be clouded over with conventions and rules and traditional roles?

i kinda agree. i don't think you can fully get away from traditional roles (nor does that have to be the case all the time anyways), but i think it can go that way evry so once in awhile .

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Originally posted by kadomony agreed, but i mean it's mainly up to the guy to build the attraction up to a level where the girl feels comfortable giving an equal amount. inter-dependence, not co-dependence.

troof.

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Originally posted by tubularbills sorry is it absolutely necessary to do that at your stage in life right now, however? i mean, do you *have* to be with someone?

pen0r says yes

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why not enjoy single life, and hang out w/ your good friends? you know?

but yeah, that's the right attitude. just hanging out with the folks, not caring/stressing out about anything, and trying to have fun. that's closer to the attitude that gets chicks attracted too, so it all fits together.

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Originally posted by Ania_xox That is such BULL SHIT! LOL WTF??? Where do you get these ideas? You make dating sound like a monolithic male burden! Damn son... you sound like you've been dating prissy snots. It's not "up to" anyone to do anything. You're going out b/c there's something connecting you and you want to explore that. Why should this situation be clouded over with conventions and rules and traditional roles? First date of my longest relationship... it was a day date and at one point I bought us both frozen yogurt. We were talking so much that neither of us noticed who paid and we laughed about it later.

Good to know some ladies out there are still cool and don't force us poor dudes into awkward situations over and over just to see how we handle it!

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Originally posted by Frenchie Why are you afraid of a girl to be able to take charge sometimes? Doesn't mean she's going to play boss.

True that, equal rights.

But just in case, they must be shorter than I am.

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Originally posted by noikeee pen0r says yes

that my friend, is what random floozies are for. lol j/k

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but yeah, that's the right attitude. just hanging out with the folks, not caring/stressing out about anything, and trying to have fun. that's closer to the attitude that gets chicks attracted too, so it all fits together.

that's what i've been doing for the most part for awhile now, and honestly, i feel happier that way.

of course getting older sucks when you start seeing people get married and shit, but whatever. lol

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Originally posted by tubularbills is it absolutely necessary to do that at your stage in life right now, however? i mean, do you *have* to be with someone? why not enjoy single life, and hang out w/ your good friends? you know?

After giving up on the notoriously brutal NYC dating scene around 2 years ago, I decided to just that and enjoy my freedom. I've been much happier ever since

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[11:58] Bas //: fuck he's hot

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Originally posted by Lira True that, equal rights. But just in case, they must be shorter than I am.

i've always liked women my height or taller. same height is ideal...awesome way to look into their eyes

my goodness...

Does there have to be long posts in this stupid thread?

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Originally posted by tubularbills i've always liked women my height or taller. same height is ideal...awesome way to look into their eyes

you better be tall!


lol

I like my guys tall and i'm a fuking shortyyyyyyyy!

Thankfully my pollack is like 10 or 9 inches bigger than me. I can wear my highest heels. rawR!

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