Originally posted by jennypie
Nope. Some people these days still have a concept of honor, respect, and integrity.
Whoever is posting from jenny's account please log out this is a serious thread.
May-13-2008 22:41
DigiNut
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Registered: Dec 2002
Location: Toronto, Self-proclaimed Centre of the Universe
quote:
Originally posted by chico
awfully high % of divorces, you sure about that? even some of the faithful married ones consent to extramarital relations too so really is a marriage a factor at all?
You mean they consent to their own extramarital affairs or to the other person's?
If it's the former then I don't see the relevance. If it's the latter then they should never have been married.
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May-13-2008 22:42
Silky Johnson
International Playa Hater
Registered: Nov 2003
Location:
quote:
Originally posted by UmmiE
Whoever is posting from jenny's account please log out this is a serious thread.
Haha, I love that you think I'm only one kind of person. Joke's on you!
May-13-2008 22:48
chico
and the man
Registered: Jan 2008
Location: Toronto, Canada
quote:
Originally posted by Sly_Guy
Cheating has occurred if and when any activities have been performed between one partner and a third party, when the first party knowingly and willfully chooses to participate in the said activity, knowing the second partner would disapprove.
Corollaries :
Not knowing if your partner would be upset doesn't count as cheating either, as it simply means you have not defined boundaries as-yet provided it is something you would not consider cheating if done to you.
i would amend as above or simplify to:
cheating has occurred if you are involved in a relationship and do anything that you know your partner would disapprove of to contradict that relationship with a third party. in the event of any undefined boundaries it becomes whatever you feel would be acceptable to be done by your partner in an equivalent situation.
May-13-2008 22:49
UmmiE
The Cure And The Cause
Registered: Jan 2007
Location: Brampton
quote:
Originally posted by jennypie
Haha, I love that you think I'm only one kind of person. Joke's on you!
Im not used to this tone of post's by you so it kinda felt weird reading that( I know you joke around in all your posts )....LOL
May-13-2008 22:49
chico
and the man
Registered: Jan 2008
Location: Toronto, Canada
quote:
Originally posted by DigiNut
You mean they consent to their own extramarital affairs or to the other person's?
If it's the former then I don't see the relevance. If it's the latter then they should never have been married.
in sense of mutually consenting to each other's actions - swingers or sexually adventurous married couples. they may be happily married, mortgage, 2.4 kids but at nighttime they have arrangements with each other that extend beyond 'normal' married sexual practices
May-13-2008 22:51
Silky Johnson
International Playa Hater
Registered: Nov 2003
Location:
I think cheating involves anything that is dishonest towards your partner, in terms of the boundaries agreed upon in the relationship.
May-13-2008 22:54
Yohan
Champion of Deep&Nu-disco
Registered: Jan 2004
Location: Kitchener, Ont, Soviet Canuckistan
quote:
Originally posted by jennypie
I think cheating involves anything that is dishonest towards your partner, in terms of the boundaries agreed upon in the relationship.
