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I've never dated an Indian guy, obviously, but from what I have seen with friends and what I've heard from others, you're in for a toughy. Main things is to work yuor way into meeting them, and once you're at the point of face to face don't try and work "yourself on to them" don't MAKE them like you just be yourself and let them see how you and this guy interact with one another. Their son is their main priority and possession, screwing things up for him will only lead them to hate you, possibly more than they would now without even knowing you. You can ask to spend one on one time with his mom just to ease her up about you, but very subtly.
I've seen a lot fo Indian parents use the " you're only marrying an indian women/man" as a scare tactic to scare not only their kid but the one they want to date who isn't indian.
That's why strict cultures stick to their own kind, too much mess and hoopla to deal with with cultures clash.
good luck 
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