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Living alone - one very good point. I find it so much easier to chat people up in Kingston when I'm just with my roommates (who aren't home half the time) than here in TO with my parents... bleh. Cars are also a factor. For me the thought of having to call a taxi (or worse, take the bus with a girl) is just embarrassing.
Anyway, understand that a helluva lot of those "assholes", "playaz" etc. out there end up sleeping with girls who have boyfriends. Just because they're in a relationship doesn't mean they're sleeping with him, doesn't mean they're happy with him, doesn't necessarily even mean that they like him, so you might as well just make your move anyway, you'll find out quickly whether or not you need to back off. And unless they are the kind of girl you'd like to have as just a friend (which is fine, I have friends like this), don't you want this info ASAP? If a girl wants to be 100% committed to a guy, she'll marry him. Otherwise it's open territory as far as I'm concerned. Girls, can you honestly say you've never flirted with a guy who has a girlfriend? I distinctly remember girls who normally never noticed me start hitting on me once I had a g/f.
Just go for it buddy, ignore this rebound shit because rebound relationships die hard and fast anyway. Again, unless you want to keep this girl as a friend with the knowledge that you can't get any closer, what have you got to lose?
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My party schedule:
2009-02-21 - DJ Attention @ I'm So Popular
2009-06-18 - DJ Annoying @ People Need To Know Where I'll Be
2012-11-32 - DJ Insufferable ɸ Or At Least the Stalkers I Complain About
2048-06-66 - Spastic & Whocares ¶ Although I'm Actually Flattered
9999-45-81 - Tweaker Gimp ☼ I Probably Won't Even Go To This But I Have To Make Sure I Fill Up All The Available Space Here
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