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Originally posted by anuneventrade I get all flustered doing things like that. If I catch a guy looking at me I'll smile and look back a few time, giving the hint "hey, I'm interested! Come talk to me!" but I'm too shy to do it on my own. Funny thing is, I don't even remember the last time a guy came up and tried to get to know me.

in all honesty sara, if i saw you in a club or whereever.. i wouldnt dream of approaching you, but maybe thats where im going wrong.. if i see a pretty girl i immediately think they are too good for me and way out of my league. i wouldnt say im not confident.. as i dont think im ugly or anything.. but as ive sed before ive had too many disappointments and let downs in my life, so i dont plan on anything working out for me.. hence.. i wouldnt be able to approach a girl as pretty as you in a club

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Originally posted by [N]ûk|êû[Z] in all honesty sara, if i saw you in a club or whereever.. i wouldnt dream of approaching you, but maybe thats where im going wrong.. if i see a pretty girl i immediately think they are too good for me and way out of my league. i wouldnt say im not confident.. as i dont think im ugly or anything.. but as ive sed before ive had too many disappointments and let downs in my life, so i dont plan on anything working out for me.. hence.. i wouldnt be able to approach a girl as pretty as you in a club

see go approach a girl expecting nothing and so if u get nothing then you get what u expected and not feel bad..if u got the girl then thats a bonus.

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Originally posted by [N]ûk|êû[Z] in all honesty sara, if i saw you in a club or whereever.. i wouldnt dream of approaching you, but maybe thats where im going wrong.. if i see a pretty girl i immediately think they are too good for me and way out of my league. i wouldnt say im not confident.. as i dont think im ugly or anything.. but as ive sed before ive had too many disappointments and let downs in my life, so i dont plan on anything working out for me.. hence.. i wouldnt be able to approach a girl as pretty as you in a club

Aww Jay! You're such a sweetheart. When I come to the UK though in the spring you better come up to me and give me a hug!

You're amazingly hot though Jay, I'm sure any girl would love to have a chance with you.

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Originally posted by [N]ûk|êû[Z] ... in a guy? like the funny guy?.. or the hard man hoo fancies themselves and is likely to treat them like shit.. just curious as id like to know where im going wrong.. been a year and a half since my last girlfriend

that would be the second one - "the hard man hoo fancies themselves and is likely to treat them like shit" been proven, a few people on TA showed me the ladder theory web site, you should check it out, because it's the truth, it's a possibility to find someone who isn't a gold digger looking for an arrogant prick but very difficult.

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I feel ages play a big part.

Younger girls dont seem to know what they want, but they sure seem to know what they dont want.

I had a few gfs break up with me "because they werent good enough for me".

I thought this was total BS at the time, thinking it was just their way of letting me down easy like, but in retrospect I guess they were right.

Funny, chivalrous, considerate, etc, everything I figured that women wanted over the years, but have only recently learnt that more mature women seem to want.

these gf were aged 15-17 when i was 17-18, then there was this huge gap when i was 'in love' with someone and spent all my energy trying to make it happen with them.

this was of course nothing more than an infatuation with a female I happend to get along really well with

I gave up on the whole relationship thing when i got over to the uk, then last year it all came together

met a girl, 3 years my senior.

she likes trance, even has records and decks
shes attractive
funny
sweet
caring
weird
internet savvy
cute
reads over my shoulder
plays with my hair
and she loves me, and i her, and thank fuck that i am a tolerant man (her words)

soon to be celebrating our 1 year and I couldnt be happier.

mebbe i am just lucky, but it seems that 2 decent ppl got what they deserve... eachother

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Originally posted by kr00t0n soon to be celebrating our 1 year and I couldnt be happier. mebbe i am just lucky, but it seems that 2 decent ppl got what they deserve... eachother

Nice!

congrats kr00ton glad to hear all's going well in your love life at least

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Originally posted by kr00t0n I feel ages play a big part. Younger girls dont seem to know what they want, but they sure seem to know what they dont want. I had a few gfs break up with me "because they werent good enough for me". I thought this was total BS at the time, thinking it was just their way of letting me down easy like, but in retrospect I guess they were right. Funny, chivalrous, considerate, etc, everything I figured that women wanted over the years, but have only recently learnt that more mature women seem to want. these gf were aged 15-17 when i was 17-18, then there was this huge gap when i was 'in love' with someone and spent all my energy trying to make it happen with them. this was of course nothing more than an infatuation with a female I happend to get along really well with I gave up on the whole relationship thing when i got over to the uk, then last year it all came together met a girl, 3 years my senior. she likes trance, even has records and decks shes attractive funny sweet caring weird internet savvy cute reads over my shoulder plays with my hair and she loves me, and i her, and thank fuck that i am a tolerant man (her words) soon to be celebrating our 1 year and I couldnt be happier. mebbe i am just lucky, but it seems that 2 decent ppl got what they deserve... eachother

happy for ya man ... wasa great pleasure meeting you and kate on NYE, your a great couple.

but i guess that is what im striving for... i mean fucking girls on a one night stand is cool [sorry , for being frank] but at the end of the day.. coming home from work after a brutal 12+ hours shift at work to be with my dad that dosnt talk to me much, isnt exactly what id call a fullfilment of life

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Originally posted by kr00t0n soon to be celebrating our 1 year and I couldnt be happier. mebbe i am just lucky, but it seems that 2 decent ppl got what they deserve... eachother

Aww mate, that's great.

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seriously u people are saps...nuk stick to fuckin women in weird locations...any girl ive ever had it never lasted more then a few months...i get sick of the "oh i want to see you its been 2 days" im like "I dont even get to drink every 2 days and i like beer more then i like you"

well that obviously means you dont care about them and youre not ready for a relationship, which is fine.