Id be happier with using the money for both on something more lasting like a special vacation or a college fund for any possible future kids

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Originally posted by jester Everything in this country is illegal.

"Socialism is a philosophy of failure, the creed of ignorance, and the gospel of envy, its inherent virtue is the equal sharing of misery…" Winston Churchill

‎"If you have ten thousand regulations you destroy all respect for the law" - Winston Churchill

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Originally posted by Jayx1 Id be happier with using the money for both on something more lasting like a special vacation or a college fund for any possible future kids

By the time our kids hit college, it'll cost more than what I paid for my first house....30 year college payments

Vacation

New driveway?

Replacement windows...

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Originally posted by Jayx1 any possible future kids

if the women is going to bear your children, don't you think she deserves special treatment? she should be pampered, IMO

men and women are inherently different, so you can't expect everything in the relationship to be the same, like paying for dates

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Disco and classical had sex while watching a sci-fi movie. Their child: trance.

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Originally posted by ShadoWolf if the women is going to bear your children, don't you think she deserves special treatment? she should be pampered, IMO men and women are inherently different, so you can't expect everything in the relationship to be the same, like paying for dates

pregnancy isnt a disease you know....

And she will get just as much out of having kids as a man would...


Along the lines of your thinking i will respond with "if shes lucky enough to be chosen to have my kids shouldnt i be respected?"

Of course i dont actually think that way but im trying to put it in a way you might understand.

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Originally posted by jester Everything in this country is illegal.

"Socialism is a philosophy of failure, the creed of ignorance, and the gospel of envy, its inherent virtue is the equal sharing of misery…" Winston Churchill

‎"If you have ten thousand regulations you destroy all respect for the law" - Winston Churchill

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Originally posted by ShadoWolf if the women is going to bear your children, don't you think she deserves special treatment? she should be pampered, IMO

There is something VERY weird that happens to women after they have children....I will elaborate if anyone wishes.

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Originally posted by zookeeper There is something VERY weird that happens to women after they have children....I will elaborate if anyone wishes.

yeah stretch marks... we know..

LOL

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Originally posted by jester Everything in this country is illegal.

"Socialism is a philosophy of failure, the creed of ignorance, and the gospel of envy, its inherent virtue is the equal sharing of misery…" Winston Churchill

‎"If you have ten thousand regulations you destroy all respect for the law" - Winston Churchill

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Originally posted by Jayx1 yeah stretch marks... we know.. LOL

OH NO, NO, NOOOO...I mean changes in the head (I could deal with just stretch marks...believe me)...their whole way of thinking changes, the way they look at you and what you now are to them.

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Originally posted by Jayx1 pregnancy isnt a disease you know....

it's not exactly a walk in the park either

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And she will get just as much out of having kids as a man would...

yeah but she'll also suffer more... which is why the man needs to contribute more in other ways

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Along the lines of your thinking i will respond with "if shes lucky enough to be chosen to have my kids shouldnt i be respected?"

Maybe you're the lucky one that she chose to be the father of her children

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Nathan Fake - Outhouse (Valentino Kanzyani Remix) || ID PLZ! PVD ID!!!
Disco and classical had sex while watching a sci-fi movie. Their child: trance.

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Originally posted by zookeeper OH NO, NO, NOOOO...I mean changes in the head (I could deal with just stretch marks...believe me)...their whole way of thinking changes, the way they look at you and what you now are to them.

oh I thought you meant the changes "down there"

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Nathan Fake - Outhouse (Valentino Kanzyani Remix) || ID PLZ! PVD ID!!!
Disco and classical had sex while watching a sci-fi movie. Their child: trance.

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Originally posted by zookeeper OH NO, NO, NOOOO...I mean changes in the head (I could deal with just stretch marks...believe me)...their whole way of thinking changes, the way they look at you and what you now are to them.

sooo true....

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IF YOU GOT TRANCE IN YOUR PANTS WHIP IT OUT!!! IF NOT JUST WHIP IT OUT ANYWAY!!!

What do you think the rules of going out with the wife are?
Who should pay then?
Who gets the choice of where to go?


....does get a little more complicated, don't it.