so what constitutes the actually cheating? sleeping with someone else?


or does flirting/kissing/desiring count also?

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Originally posted by Porky so what constitutes the actually cheating? sleeping with someone else? or does flirting/kissing/desiring count also?

The key is talking with your SO, because you never knwo what will offend them. Of course, something harmless to you might be something that offends them, but that's what these discussions are for.

Furthermore, you also need to talk is you plan on dating around, assuming you're only "seeing each other", when they're falling for you and wouldn't even look at someone else, assuming you feel the same way.

This is a big, big problem when people don't communicate, and that too, can lead to cheating (which never has any excuse).

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Originally posted by DigitalMP This is a big, big problem when people don't communicate

i think this is the biggest communication problem between the sexes.

1. women don't like their men 'looking'

2. men are always going to be 'looking', as in their eyes will always wander and notice an attractive women and have at least an initial physical attraction.

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Originally posted by Porky so what constitutes the actually cheating?

The best way to answer this is if your partner thinks its cheating then its cheating.

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Originally posted by DigitalMP there could be a number of explanations. a) she never got over him, and found out that after some time away, he's still the one for her. b) he took a while to get over her, and waws very hurt when she moved on. it took him awhile, but either he moved on, or he said, i'm doing my best to make her jealous. c) for either the reason of getting over her or trying to make her jealous, he's been trying to score for the entire two months, but just recently made contact with a compatible life form.

thnx Dave!!

These are some really good explanations! Knowing their history and such I'd say its a mix btwn A & B...they are both mental about each other but I guess he was really hurt when she broke up with him and moved on and now she feels as if she's lost him forever! who knows?? I hope everything works out for her!! But atleast I can be there for her.... always!!!3

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Originally posted by DigitalMP This is a big, big problem when people don't communicate, and that too, can lead to cheating (which never has any excuse).

I agree 200% ...communication is KEY....and guys/girlz communication DOES involve LISTENING to eachother !!! SOOOOOOOOOO IMPERATIVE!!!

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Originally posted by DigitalMP This is a big, big problem when people don't communicate, and that too, can lead to cheating (which never has any excuse).

oh yeah, I agree for sure!

lack of communication leads to biiiiiig problems generally, ppl start assuming things without clarifying them first with the other half, jealousy comes in, etc

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communication is overrated really.

it becomes trying after a while. repeating the same stuff over, if after so long you still have to talk about every little thing then what's the point of talking in the first place if nothing is resolved.

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Originally posted by StereoPrincess communication is overrated really. it becomes trying after a while. repeating the same stuff over, if after so long you still have to talk about every little thing then what's the point of talking in the first place if nothing is resolved.

yeah but at least talking things over is better then letting it accumulate in ur head...

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Originally posted by StereoPrincess communication is overrated really. it becomes trying after a while. repeating the same stuff over, if after so long you still have to talk about every little thing then what's the point of talking in the first place if nothing is resolved.

That's why proper communication techniques need to be learned and practiced.

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Originally posted by chinamon not true. i say "ugh" but i am a tranny.

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Originally posted by kotsy lol colour me retarded

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Originally posted by EvilTree That's why proper communication techniques need to be learned and practiced.

lol are the tutorials available online?

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Originally posted by FunkyGroove lol are the tutorials available online?

Simple really. I talk, you listen. You don't interrupt. You talk, I give you full attention.

Biggest thing is to not let the other person stomp on you when you're trying to speak. It's just simple courtesy.

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Originally posted by chinamon not true. i say "ugh" but i am a tranny.

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Originally posted by kotsy lol colour me retarded