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Originally posted by Frenchie I'm one of those people who are very generous when it comes to wedding gifts/money but I think it's funny if you expect the people attending to give you enough money to pay your wedding off. "We're getting married so now YOU fork over the money" Like.. excuse you?

I'm going to require down payments.

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Originally posted by inconspicuous I'm going to require down payments.

Only if we can choose our own payment plan.

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Originally posted by Frenchie I'm one of those people who are very generous when it comes to wedding gifts/money but I think it's funny if you expect the people attending to give you enough money to pay your wedding off. "We're getting married so now YOU fork over the money" Like.. excuse you?

It might be cultural differences, but in ours, its implicit that your gift has to cover your drinks and meal, its etiquette to do that, most people give more. No one has been told to give a certain amount of money or to even give gifts, its just how it works for us.

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Originally posted by Frenchie Only if we can choose our own payment plan.

due pre-invite. no highway.

You might as well ask your attendees to pay for the future divorce as well.

addendum made.

You will be one freaky multi-colored family lol

A wedding of evangelical praise and poutine sides with champagne (cheap)

...and a reception with the best sound system around.

expensive weddings are a great stupidity tax

I'd ask if you'd spend a lot of money on yours if you had unlimited funds, but I can see the 'holier-than-thou' response coming.