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Originally posted by whiskers I bet you dodged a serious bullet by not sleeping with him, because I agree with The17sss about him being the clear psycho winner. However, I must wonder, how did not having sex for the 4 months (right?) that you were together affect his craziness (probably a lot, if he didn't screw on the side). Usually, people who brag a lot are the insecure ones who, in reality, have nothing to talk about (i.e. all those sluts he talked about were fake stories).

I have a rule about not sleeping with you until we've been dating at least a month and a half. Its never gotten me into trouble and this is one of the times I wonder if it saved my life.

Doesn't mean he didn't try...even when he knew I was disgusted by him. Then he just tried to piss me off. After he turned crazy he pawed, groped, grabbed, touched, stroked, pinched, prodded everything on me all fucking day every day.

He constantly was groping on my breast and I told him to knock it off. So he got the smart idea to side his hand between my breast and then, in a sing song voice, would be like "But I'm not touuuching them! You said I can't touch your breasts!"

In front of his mother one time, he put his hand on my back, and it looked like he just had his arm around my waist, but no, he had stuck his hand in the back of my pants and was trying to toy around, knowing I couldn't say anything in front of his mother (she was one of THOSE mothers, who believed her son was never at fault).

He would break into my apartment (he used to collect rent for his Grandfather and knew how to sneak in) and wait for me if I wasn't home when he felt I should be.

I don't think he was having sex on the side. When he wasn't at work, he was coming over (unannounced, I might add) and beating down my door because I didn't answer within a minute: kicking it, screaming, pounding on it. Very embarrassing if I was on the toilet or something. It eventually got so bad anytime I heard footsteps near my door I would lay very flat on the couch and very still. I stopped answering my door because I was scared it was him. Anytime someone knocked my heart hammered, I started to shake. It was very awful and even after he was finally out of my life the effects were there for awhile.

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Originally posted by ziptnf I probably wake up QWOPing.

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Originally posted by Banora Thats why I refer to him as Napoleon. And like I said, thats just a basic summary of the stuff he did. Those four months were god awful. There was this time when we were driving and he was pissed off at me for something, but I wasn't going to argue, I was tired of it (this was close to the end of the relationship). He was screaming at me to look at him, but I was looking out the window and ignoring him. He then threatens to wreck the car if I don't look at him, which I continue to ignore him. He was obsessed with his car, so I didn't take his threat seriously. I feel the car speed up and realize its drifting slightly, so I look over and he's floored the gas, taken his hands off the wheel and have them calmly folded in his lap, so I had to reach over and yank the wheel before we crashed into something. He pulls over, stops the car and very softly says "Now do you understand why its so important to do what I tell you?" Fucking psycho.

Heh I have a similar story, except maybe more extreme. My ex (mentioned above) was behind the wheel and she was pissed at me because I didn't say something to a guy that tried to flirt with her (In her mind I wasn't being jealous and didn't try to protect her so that meant I didn't care or some bullshit.)

So she floors the gas pedal at that point she was going about 60mph in 25mph zone, right into a parked car. I had to jump over the center console grab the wheel and slam on the breaks stopping just inches from the parked car. This was while I was coming from a friends birthday party and was shitfaced, so the entire thing was surreal to me at the time. I don't think I've ever been so scared for my life before.

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Originally posted by Igaryok Heh I have a similar story, except maybe more extreme. My ex (mentioned above) was behind the wheel and she was pissed at me because I didn't say something to a guy that tried to flirt with her (In her mind I wasn't being jealous and didn't try to protect her so that meant I didn't care or some bullshit.) So she floors the gas pedal at that point she was going about 60mph in 25mph zone, right into a parked car. I had to jump over the center console grab the wheel and slam on the breaks stopping just inches from the parked car. This was while I was coming from a friends birthday party and was shitfaced, so the entire thing was surreal to me at the time. I don't think I've ever been so scared for my life before.

Jesus Christ! At least on the road we were driving it was pretty late and there wasn't any traffic. At worst we would have hit a road median or something.

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Originally posted by ziptnf I probably wake up QWOPing.

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Originally posted by Banora Jesus Christ! At least on the road we were driving it was pretty late and there wasn't any traffic. At worst we would have hit a road median or something.

It was late as well, I'd say around 2 in the morning and on an empty street except for a few parked cars. It was icy though so I'm surprised we came out alive. I dated the girl for over 4 years (lulz), so I have a ton of interesting stories.

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Originally posted by Igaryok Yeah it was icy too so I'm surprised we came out alive. I dated the girl for over 4 years (lulz), so I have a ton of interesting stories.

Haha, why did you stay with her?

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Originally posted by ziptnf I probably wake up QWOPing.

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Originally posted by Banora Haha, why did you stay with her?

She was an emotional trainwreck, she'd threaten to hurt herself and stuff when I tried to break up with her. Plus every time I dumped her she would apologize and promise me she would change so I felt bad and took her back. And as crazy as it sounds I loved her.

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Originally posted by Igaryok She was an emotional trainwreck, she'd threaten to hurt herself and stuff when I tried to break up with her. Plus every time I dumped her she would apologize and promise me she would change so I felt bad and took her back. And as crazy as it sounds I loved her.

I've never been in love, so I can't understand. I didn't leave him for so long because like I said, I owed him that money and didn't want to get sued...and I was too scared. He had alienated me from my friends and I don't really have parents, so they didn't know (my mother is a gold digging whore and has told me my whole life to marry someone rich. When she met him, he was, of course, charming and sweet and let it drop he has A LOT of money, which thrilled her. When I told my mom he had hit me she said "Somethings are worth dealing with. Think of how much better off you'll be if he marries you! Don't let him go!").

I was scared because he could break into my apartment and stalk me. We're talking about the guy who, after I first said I never want to see him again, broke into my apartment, took my favorite cat and sent him to the pound while I was at work.

When I came home and found my cat missing, he was the first I called, crying because I thought the cat got out. He then 'hints' maybe your cat got out and someone took him to the pound. Sure enough, he was there, admitted in hours earlier. Cost me so much money to have taken back too. They can't tell you who brought the animal there...but I knew it was him.

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Originally posted by ziptnf I probably wake up QWOPing.

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Originally posted by Igaryok She was an emotional trainwreck, she'd threaten to hurt herself and stuff when I tried to break up with her. Plus every time I dumped her she would apologize and promise me she would change so I felt bad and took her back. And as crazy as it sounds I loved her.

it is crazy. and you don't love her because you clearly do not even know what love is, based on this post of yours. you were just with her because it secretly made you feel important.

BUSTED!

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Originally posted by notelfreak man i can't believe i tried to come off as responsible in that other thread, i am so full of shit just don't tell anyone

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Originally posted by Banora I have a rule about not sleeping with you until we've been dating at least a month and a half. Its never gotten me into trouble and this is one of the times I wonder if it saved my life. Doesn't mean he didn't try...even when he knew I was disgusted by him. Then he just tried to piss me off. After he turned crazy he pawed, groped, grabbed, touched, stroked, pinched, prodded everything on me all fucking day every day. He constantly was groping on my breast and I told him to knock it off. So he got the smart idea to side his hand between my breast and then, in a sing song voice, would be like "But I'm not touuuching them! You said I can't touch your breasts!" In front of his mother one time, he put his hand on my back, and it looked like he just had his arm around my waist, but no, he had stuck his hand in the back of my pants and was trying to toy around, knowing I couldn't say anything in front of his mother (she was one of THOSE mothers, who believed her son was never at fault). He would break into my apartment (he used to collect rent for his Grandfather and knew how to sneak in) and wait for me if I wasn't home when he felt I should be. I don't think he was having sex on the side. When he wasn't at work, he was coming over (unannounced, I might add) and beating down my door because I didn't answer within a minute: kicking it, screaming, pounding on it. Very embarrassing if I was on the toilet or something. It eventually got so bad anytime I heard footsteps near my door I would lay very flat on the couch and very still. I stopped answering my door because I was scared it was him. Anytime someone knocked my heart hammered, I started to shake. It was very awful and even after he was finally out of my life the effects were there for awhile.

Jesus!!! I can only imagine what it will be like when he has kids someday. I feel bad for those kids already, even if they aren't born yet. Picture that guy as your dad.

The thing that definitely solidifies him in the "psycho" category is this---> "He would break into my apartment (he used to collect rent for his Grandfather and knew how to sneak in) and wait for me if I wasn't home when he felt I should be "

Who's dated Sara? We need the crazy bitch dirt!!!!!

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Originally posted by bas Dual exhaust tips on dual exhaust = QUAD EXHAUST = 300 gain in horsepower. Duh

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Originally posted by bas Undies with a dickhole aren't good for guys. Your balls can get caught in them. That's why I prefer to go over the gate instead of through the fence.

At the end of the relationship I finally told my friends what had happened and that I was too scared to leave. So they decided that I am going to call it off, for the last time, and there will always be two people (plus me) in my apartment until the whole thing was cleared.

I'm really glad I finally told them. If I hadn't I dunno what could have happened.

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Originally posted by ziptnf I probably wake up QWOPing.

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Originally posted by Banora When I told my mom he had hit me she said "Somethings are worth dealing with. Think of how much better off you'll be if he marries you! Don't let him go!"

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We're talking about the guy who, after I first said I never want to see him again, broke into my apartment, took my favorite cat and sent him to the pound while I was at work.

All of this (and more I'm sure) happened in just 4 months??? Keep the stories coming though. This is so interesting to me.