Originally posted by Pixiechick
Most of my first "moves" were in the range of your categories 3-5 Aaron. When I get a bee in my bonnet, I get a serious bee in my bonnet!!! (and you can quote me on that Margaret!) Especially when it comes to boyz
Do you really think I cruise around the Internet reading everything you write, and picking up cute quotes all over the place? Geez, you have a high self-esteem dont'cha? .
Anyways, I'm also into shy guys and I have made the first move with my bf pretty blatently. From first words to first kiss. He did have to finally ask me out but pretty much all the dates before that were initiated by me. I would have to make sure to be where he is all the time and join him and such other methods. And it still took him 5 months to realize I liked him. What a silly goof.
Nov-11-2003 17:30
StereoPrincess
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Registered: May 2001
Location: SPFRI
quote:
Originally posted by DigiNut
Aw
Actually it's interesting, now that I think about it, most of the "nicer" girls I've met have some [relatively] sad childhood story to tell. Coincidence?
Not that that has anything to do with the topic, but anyway...
this can give you a hint. pick them up while they are still in the sad developing stage and watch them grow into beauties like Erika.
Nov-11-2003 17:32
Prod
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Registered: Oct 2003
Location: Kitchener/Waterloo
quote:
Originally posted by DigiNut
Aw
Actually it's interesting, now that I think about it, most of the "nicer" girls I've met have some [relatively] sad childhood story to tell. Coincidence?
Not that that has anything to do with the topic, but anyway...
One of my closest friends (a female, yes) has had quite a turbulent childhood, and pretty much all the way through uni with bad relationships and everything, but after all of that, she turned out to be one of the coolest people I've met, so just to back up that argument
Nov-11-2003 17:41
Pixiechick
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Location: Toronto-Montreal
quote:
Originally posted by StereoPrincess
this can give you a hint. pick them up while they are still in the sad developing stage and watch them grow into beauties like Erika.
HAHA!!!
I didn't know whether to write "Aw" or laugh at that last comment Margie... hilarious!!!
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Nov-11-2003 17:56
DigiNut
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quote:
Originally posted by StereoPrincess
this can give you a hint. pick them up while they are still in the sad developing stage and watch them grow into beauties like Erika.
It does follow logically that what you're saying would work, but I can say without hesitation that it's a bad idea. And I do realize that it was probably a joke, but just in case anybody decides to take it seriously...
Picking them up while they're in that "innocent" stage essentially kills the whole development process. It may sound stupid, but I think it ruins people being in serious relationships when they're too young to take them on responsibly. They don't have enough time to develop their own self-esteem and instead become dependent on attention from others. Instead of learning from their mistakes, they repeat them over and over again - whereas people who never had relationships (at least, not really heavy ones) at that age, never make those mistakes in the first place.
Strange but true, and yes I am speaking from experience here...
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Originally posted by StereoPrincess
I would have to make sure to be where he is all the time and join him and such other methods. And it still took him 5 months to realize I liked him. What a silly goof.
LOL I am EXACTLY like that. I had this girl who I knew at school once (would have out at pub nights sometimes, would see her at York all the time) come up to me during the first time I saw PvD and go "Chris do you think I'm beautiful?". I said "Yeah of course!" and did NOTHING beyond that! Go figure...I mean you'd think I'd realize if a girl was interested by saying something like that (and it wasn't in a way that was that she was asking as a friend, I realize that now (2 years late). Ah well. Shit happens.
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Nov-11-2003 18:38
LKD
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Originally posted by Endlesswave
LOL I am EXACTLY like that. I had this girl who I knew at school once (would have out at pub nights sometimes, would see her at York all the time) come up to me during the first time I saw PvD and go "Chris do you think I'm beautiful?". I said "Yeah of course!" and did NOTHING beyond that! Go figure...I mean you'd think I'd realize if a girl was interested by saying something like that (and it wasn't in a way that was that she was asking as a friend, I realize that now (2 years late). Ah well. Shit happens.
eh chris...
was ur next line "OMG PVD IS KILLING ME!!!!OMG!! I DIE!!" ???
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Nov-11-2003 18:56
DigiNut
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Originally posted by Endlesswave
LOL I am EXACTLY like that. I had this girl who I knew at school once (would have out at pub nights sometimes, would see her at York all the time) come up to me during the first time I saw PvD and go "Chris do you think I'm beautiful?". I said "Yeah of course!" and did NOTHING beyond that! Go figure...I mean you'd think I'd realize if a girl was interested by saying something like that (and it wasn't in a way that was that she was asking as a friend, I realize that now (2 years late). Ah well. Shit happens.
Geesh... I've ignored visual cues, but that's about as obvious as they get! You could've at least followed up your answer with a "wanna dance?" type comment.
Hope you've gotten a little more observant!
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Nov-11-2003 20:22
LKD
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Originally posted by DigiNut
You could've at least followed up your answer with a "wanna dance?" type comment.
nah..better yet he couldve said....
"since dancing is the vertical expression of horizontal intentions, how bout we take it one axis at a time??"
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Location: Toronto, Self-proclaimed Centre of the Universe
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Originally posted by DJ El Kay Dee
nah..better yet he couldve said....
"since dancing is the vertical expression of horizontal intentions, how bout we take it one axis at a time??"
Yes, good idea. That almost certainly would have elicited a definitive "what the hell are you talking about!?"
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Nov-11-2003 20:38
LKD
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quote:
Originally posted by DigiNut
Yes, good idea. That almost certainly would have elicited a definitive "what the hell are you talking about!?"
eh if she says that, u know she has nohin up there and all she wants is teh horizontal movement