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| quote: | Originally posted by Slylee
The key word is moderation. I’m not a fan of playing games, but certainly a little “hard to get” in the beginning is always necessary. Or even throughout the relationship to spice things up too, but nothing too extreme.
I am a lot like sara and how she described herself as a girlfriend, and to the guy who said that being too perfect is boring, you seriously need to grow up. I’m sure sara knows how to play her cards right, as do I. Just because we don't mind cleaning and taking care of our men, or cooking for them, doesn't mean we are boring. It usually just means we have something special planned for "dessert" That's called game...now go look it up in the dictionary or take notes....
Mature, confident people (females in particular) do not go for the asshole, game playing high school mentality. That is getting old. People who do that have no idea what they want in life or where they’re going, except maybe the sack to get try and get laid, which I would imagine gets old.
I could go on and on, but like I said, it’s about doing everything in moderation and not being immature about it. |
True and untrue.
At the beginning, I agree, the "playful" hard to get is fun. But not the complete absence of any indicator that "yes, i think i like you".
Some girls. i've found, that if you give in and actually love love them, is about the time they don't want anymore, where others, will give all of themselves when you do.
The last relationship was great until i stopped holding back what i was feeling, though i would let what i felt show through everynow and then throughout the relationship. Either that, or her white christian family did not like the fact that i was Arab.
When it works, it's great, and you never have to worry about "should I say this?" or "should I do that?" You'll say what comes naturally and it will be all good, and you'll do what you feel like doing, and it will be all good.
But it may not just "come to you". Be a little proactive.
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