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00soups00
cruzin

Registered: Aug 2002
Location: Melbourne
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it all comes down to acceptance. She had reasons for doing what she did and none of them at all justify what was done. It is a fucked thing to do to someone you are with, and even though a cvnt act was done by her, it still doesnt make accepting what has happened any easier.
At the same time, it does you no good to turn around and say "well the last 3 years were a waste or i regret that time i spent with them", because there would have been alot of amazing times that they had together which were and are still special. It's just seeing past the hurt and the anger which will take time. But eventually that acceptance will come, and that will be a great day.
It can take a long time to get over someone you love (hell i'm living proof of it) it took me close to 7 months to properly get over my ex, and now that i have i am able to take the great bits of that relationship, and the happy memories and all the parts about her that i love without being sad, because they are happy memories which i still to this day hold close to me.
And It will happen to you too someday Benny..
All the best mate, and i know you have alot of friends and support, so whoever was the dog mate was who did this to you will be cast aside without a second thought because there are plenty of good people around you.
ack.. I'm rambling..
All the best Benny and see you tomorrow night 
-Dr Soups
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Nov-02-2006 13:19
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Mike Nichol
tranceaddict

Registered: Mar 2005
Location: Melbourne
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Nov-02-2006 13:43
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MiSSyM
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Registered: Nov 2005
Location: MELBOURNE
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| quote: | Originally posted by 00soups00
it all comes down to acceptance. She had reasons for doing what she did and none of them at all justify what was done. It is a fucked thing to do to someone you are with, and even though a cvnt act was done by her, it still doesnt make accepting what has happened any easier.
At the same time, it does you no good to turn around and say "well the last 3 years were a waste or i regret that time i spent with them", because there would have been alot of amazing times that they had together which were and are still special. It's just seeing past the hurt and the anger which will take time. But eventually that acceptance will come, and that will be a great day.
It can take a long time to get over someone you love (hell i'm living proof of it) it took me close to 7 months to properly get over my ex, and now that i have i am able to take the great bits of that relationship, and the happy memories and all the parts about her that i love without being sad, because they are happy memories which i still to this day hold close to me.
And It will happen to you too someday Benny..
All the best mate, and i know you have alot of friends and support, so whoever was the dog mate was who did this to you will be cast aside without a second thought because there are plenty of good people around you.
ack.. I'm rambling..
All the best Benny and see you tomorrow night 
-Dr Soups |
Now im just talking in general here:
The quicker you accept that you've been fucked over, the quicker you say a big FUCK YOU to the person who fucked you over, the quicker you shut SHIT out of your life.....will be when life moves on.
Why dwell? Yes I can see how you would be hurt at first & who knows maybe even shed a tear or two lol, however someone that does something like that doesnt even deserve for tears to be shed over them.
Capish!
Im just sick of hearing about guys getting fucked over by a certain girl-and who are still not over them 2-3 years later....and yes its happened (to a mate of mine)!
And it even happens vice-versa....some girls get treated like DAWG SHIT really really bad, but still get hung up over their ex's.
I do not feel sorry for them.
GET SOME SELF RESPECT!
& remember Positive thinking ok! lol

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Nov-02-2006 13:50
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