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Alright, let me put on my scientist cap for a second and give you the science behind "love". Ahem....
"Attraction" (aka the beginning of love) starts when your phermones interact with someone else's. Chemically, when you're a compatible match with someone, you just feel it - this tingle, heightened senses, and your pulse speeds up. This is due to this chemical reaction from your body to theirs. As for the butterflies, when you are attracted to someone, your body releases serotonin and another chemical which gives a feeling of elation as well as a "hungry" feeling in your stomach (hence, the butterflies). This explains why one person and not the other as far as attraction goes....love, however, why you love one person yet not another....perhaps because this attraction dosen't stick or isn't as deeply felt. *shrug* In my experience, the "attraction" phase when I first meet someone I've dated seriously is like a tidal wave - you feel all warm and gooey inside and it dosen't go away when you're with them - the "schoolgirl" syndrome. The butterflies never seem to stop and a mere touch can send me into orbit. That's the good stuff. As opposed to those I've just dated a few times which is more like a stiff breeze on the beach and a sense of wicked fun.
And Part two - Why I (a scientist) am Agnostic
Reason One:
I firmly believe there is something out there. If you doubt this, do me favor and try this experiment. Go out to the woods - somewhere remote where human beings do not dwell often. Find a nice, open valley or a good scenic spot and hunker down. Listen and look around you. Think of all the miracles that had to occur to get a single celled organism to branch out and become the uncountable multitudes of life you see teeming around you. One little cell (created by chance from primordial gases and atoms) and we have all this because of it. Science still cannot explain what sparked that change and, until they can, I believe something greater exists. Nature holds such a power within it - there is a presence there that creeps up on me when I'm in the deep woods or ocean that dosen't occur when I venture forth into a church. And if you've ever been on an Indian burial mound at night (I have) or to some of the more ancient graveyards (double me), you can feel it too.
Reason Two:
Fate exists. Too many times in my life has there been something more out there that just WHAM! and changes my life entirely. It might not be the best thing at first but it can lead to it. Coincidence I thought at first but nope, there is such a thing as fate. THe more you fight against it, the worse things can turn out - better to just nudge a little and let life take you where it will.
It also comes down to I guess what you feel is the point of life on this earth. Are we here to transcend to a higher plane of existence or are we just "here"? Is there a point to being good or bad if there's no hell? Most righteous religion followers I know are always trying to better both themselves and those around them - which isn't a bad thing.
I believe that we're here to learn and be the best we can be but, at the same time, I don't intend to spend my life in a cubicle. I don't care if I'm not the wealthiest person in the world as long as I know my life has been full and rich with good people, places, and times. Let people learn from you and you from them and making people smile is the thing I love to do best. Laughter is pure light in my mind.
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Have Love Will Travel
Last edited by kabelicious on Apr-05-2005 at 21:08
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