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| quote: | Originally posted by gmilf
Can most guys tell if another guy is good looking? I have a really hard time figuring it out, perhaps I am so sexually repressed that I am just too afraid to open myself up to the possibility of thinking another guy is hot. But, I really can never tell if a guy is good looking or not.
This is my theory so far;
Muscles aren't really that important but there should be symmetry to the body and broad shoulders are generally important. A strong jawline and not too hairy. If everything seems symmetrically the guy should be considered at least decent then if they have a bright eye color it will throw them over the top and they are actually good looking. But, no. I've failed every time.
And, not just with this friend. Banora will point out guys that she thinks are hot and I am just confused. Does every girl just have completely different taste or is there a type that is considered universally good looking? |
sure.any single guy who walks into a bar or club can pick out a guy that they think is attractive enough to steal a girls attention away from them that night.and yes girls like so many many different qualitys in men you cant classify one look .i know quite a bit of girls who admittedly date what most women and men would consider ugly guys but because they have "nice eyes" they go out with them.even bang then and say what a mistake it was later.
i was just having this conversation with an attractive girl today.the topic was the actor robert patterson and how incredibly ugly he is,not even knowing she had a massive cream for him.she proceeded to pull out a new magazine with him on the cover.she then started stating what she liked in men.
talking to her for 2 min i knew i had no shot with this girl,not that i was looking for one.but the variety of men she pointed out she was attracted to were the exact oppisite of me.
heres my take on it based on being single.and this is based on NOT using money or your regular circle of friends to attract women:
as a man,muscles are very important.but they are extra important if your ugly.if your face is busted,you better get that body in shape.you dont have to be jacked,but jacked can be good.(not hulk hogan jacked just in extremely good shape).you need to be in at least good enough shape that women can see your in shape through the shirt your wearing,not that it has to be a smedium shirt or anything,just enough so a women can tell.
think of a swimmers body,like jesus.
and if your wardrobe doesent reflect that your in good shape,you better change it.
same thing with your haircut and facial hair.if your ugly,keep it in check at all times.because when an attractive man has scraggly hair and facial hair hes considered "rugged". an ugly man is just considered"ugly" when he does the same thing.
body hair? lets start getting rid of it.im not saying you should look like a baby mouse,but if your hairy time to break out that bic son.chest hair?take it off.legs,arms,pits,happy trail,that all can stay.pubes? see ya.how far you go is up to you but the bottom line is it looks better and it feels better.i cant remember any girl ive dated that doesent prefer this look.
strong jawline?this generally tends to be more of a factor in women who are older.younger girls dont seem to care as nowadays men hide their lack of bone structure with facial hair. a goetee or the "jawline beard" will mask the appearance of not having a good jaw.i see that look constantly when im out and about.and if you dont have a jawline its a good look to have.
now im not saying this is going to work for everyone.if everyone did the same thing no one would have differnt tastes.
your environment alone can do you in no matter how attractive you are.ever been out to a place youve never been (especially a different town or city)and see tons of hot girls and look at their boyfriends and wonder what the heck is going on and why no girl is talking to you? sometimes its because your not in their click.
and it doesent matter how good looking you are .if your a hipster in a preppy bar,or a meathead in a hipster bar,etc etc or if you dont fit the style or the environment of that area the only thing youll be holding that night is the beer in your hand.
the bottem line is if you want people to find you attractive you ned to do the best with what you got.fit it into whatever style you are,and hope for the best.
COR VESRION: if your ugly you better do a lot of stuff to distract women from your face.
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Last edited by bigjimslade002 on Mar-06-2011 at 07:30
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