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Originally posted by Alex The real question is, would AFROMAN hit it?

no, but afro ninja will

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Originally posted by heathen actually you pay to not have to ever call, send flowers or take out to dinner!

you can get that from a $50 hooker

seriously, the extra cash is discretion

where's AFROMAN when I need him?

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Originally posted by Lira Is it prostitution if you pay for sex with sex?

In an ideal world, that would be possible. Guilt and attachment-free sex is a rare thing; I've not experienced it before, and I doubt that it would even be possible without being considered a mistaken act under the influence.

I'm not talking about casual sex, either - that always ends up in something undesirable by at least one of the parties involved, and it's usually because they want something more.

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she has great tits

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Originally posted by heathen she has great tits

+1

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Originally posted by Halcyon+On+On Guilt and attachment-free sex is a rare thing; I've not experienced it before, and I doubt that it would even be possible without being considered a mistaken act under the influence.

You're referring to just yourself right?? Cause otherwise this might be the stupidest thing you've ever said.

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Originally posted by Halcyon+On+On In an ideal world, that would be possible. Guilt and attachment-free sex is a rare thing; I've not experienced it before, and I doubt that it would even be possible without being considered a mistaken act under the influence.

it made me feel hollow inside

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Originally posted by jennypie You're referring to just yourself right?? Cause otherwise this might be the stupidest thing you've ever said.

Well yeah - like I said, I am drawing from my own experience. Even exchanges to start as casual eventually just fizzle out or end in someone being hurt. I've never felt as though I've engaged in a sensible agreement with someone else that was nothing more than sex. I think most people are inclined to become sort of lost in their feelings at that point, sometimes one sex, sometimes the other. I'm just saying it never ends well and there is a reason for that.

Unless it only happens once and there is alcohol involved. Then yeah, sure.

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Originally posted by Yuris it made me feel hollow inside

That's what I am saying: it makes you feel one way or the other. And if it doesn't - well, that is a rare thing indeed and you should probably re-assess your value of other people, because you may be hurting a lot of others, toying with their feelings like that. Or maybe you aren't. I don't know.

There are almost always feelings involved in sex. There's just no escaping this, no matter how much people would prefer to ignore it because it's just easier that way.

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Originally posted by Halcyon+On+On There are almost always feelings involved in sex. There's just no escaping this, no matter how much people would prefer to ignore it because it's just easier that way.

Sure there is a way to escape them, at least for a time, if you know yourself and your fuck partner well enough. But no one said such a relationship has to be permanent. Sure, feelings may develop eventually, and that's when it all ends, but it does not mean it wasn't worth it for both people while it lasted.

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Originally posted by silene Sure there is a way to escape them, at least for a time, if you know yourself and your fuck partner well enough. But no one said such a relationship has to be permanent. Sure, feelings may develop eventually, and that's when it all ends, but it does not mean it wasn't worth it for both people while it lasted.

Yeah, until you're the person who was stuck wanting more. Then you will start to wonder whether the sex was worth it in the first place. "It was nice while it lasted" only suffices for the person who goes on to someone else because all they wanted was sex from the one they are leaving behind. Not that I'm speaking from experience or anything.

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