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Originally posted by StereoPrincess The flat tongue licking as mentioned by somebody feels really good if the guy has a tongue piercing.

that feels good period....tounge piercing or not!!!!

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I have read a few sex books in my time and this one that I just read had a chapter called "The Extended Female Orgasm".
It gave details on how to give your woman an orgasm she'd never forget. The woman that wrote the book said that she and her husband tried this method and she had an orgasm that lasted 1 hour and 13 minutes.

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another thing that i can recomend - put a big mirror near your bed and do that spoon position facing the mirror - mmmmmmmm so naughty

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Originally posted by PinkLollypop another thing that i can recomend - put a big mirror near your bed and do that spoon position facing the mirror - mmmmmmmm so naughty

yep mirrors definetly spice things up a bit, good call

never new about the ice cube thing, hehe, thanks for that!

erogenous zones, this seems kinda weird but my ex-gf would go crazy if i lightly touched her upper arm, especially on the inside, i think the skin is very sensitive there. not as exiting as the above mentioned stuff, but whatever hehe.

thanks for all the tips ladies!

sugah

U really do like to watch dont you Lolly?

BTW one thing that I stress to myself..it doesnt matter what we think of her most of the time...if she thinks she has a fat stomach and you play with it..no no..same goes for thighs, arms etc..I learned the hard way =(

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this thread has livened up a bit. Sadly i suspected that someone was going to try to make a mountain out of a molehill about this thread. We're all adults here (well pysically anyways :P)so lets try to act like it.

I'm single now but i was with my g/f for a year and a half and i was lucky she was willing to try new stuff and experiment. We started out exporing each other and spent lots of time making love (not necesarily sex), eventually we tried pretty much everything cept the fetish stuff though eventually she used to get really turned on by penetration so sometimes i'd be fucking her hard and I'd slide two fingers in and out of her mouth and my other hand would be finger fucking her ass and it would drive her cr@zy ! ha ha!! Or what she used to love was for me to sit down at the end of the bed on pillows and she'd lie down on me with her back to me and we'd snuggle up and i'd slide a finger or two right up hard against her G-spot and the other i'd massage her clit. And then I'd start sliding my fingers in her faster and faster like a dick on steroids (because your hand reflexes are a lot quicker then your hips :P). I used to get her to come a few times in a go like that and it's fun cause you get to be in total control of the situation and you get to tease too if you want. (I love playing heh)

You have to realise that sexuality is all a state of mind. I'll try to explain this. I've found that sexyness and sexuality have very little to do with looks and all to do with the way you approach sex. If you're thinking "whats in it for me" you'll never be as sexy nor have as much fun as if you approach a situation of "how can i make this person enjoy this as much as possible". I guarantee people will love having sex with you, once you start thinking like this you start getting very inventive and you'll innovate in sex more. It's all to do with being considerate of your partner. You'll find it's more fun too as they'll start doing things they know turn you on in return. Yup thats right - someone spending time doing thing to you you love heh heh

I actually get really turned on making my baby horny as and then teasing her for a bit. She wants you to stick it in (she's begging). You do!....half an inch then try withdrawing slowly and going back in the same distance for a few minutes. then go in a bit deeper and hold it for a few then withdraw etc etc. the whole time i'd have my face a half an inch from hers just staring into her eyes while i have her pinned onto the bed. And slowly start going in deeper and faster.
It's not about what you do folks it's the way you do it. My girl hated the thought of anal sex at first and i let it go because the worst thing you can do with anything is push it. After a bit she got curious on her own and we just took it slow. I mean SLOW! And she knew i wouldn't hurt her so she trusted me 100% and after getting used to it she loved it so much everytime she was coming she'd beg me to put a finger in while i was bring her to orgasm.

Another thing to try is whispering dirty in their ear (particularly when they're coming - make sure they aren't too prudish though or they'll get turned off). While we were having sweaty frantic sex i'd tell her what a dirty little slut she was etc etc and she'd get so hot. Works great but make sure she knows you well enough to know it's not you insulting her LOL!!


As for oral i found i couldn't keep going in one way so i'd have to alternate. I'd use my tongue up and down a bit and then try from side to side real quick. Open your mouth and stick out your tongue and shake your head quickly from side to side. Try growling real low while licking to as they get the vibrations nicely (Oh it works even better on guys girls!! Try making low vocal sounds while you've got his head in your mouth).

If you want to have a REALLY great sex encounter then let her know during the day what you plan to do to her that night and keep "updating" her on your plans during the day and see how hot things get!! i love girls who do that to me too. Oh and i also LOVE it when a girl sneaks up on me and sticks her hot wet tongue in my ear....It's incredible! Me melts.....Purrrrrrrrrr!!

This is all i can think of just now but it'll have to do Keep the thread going as it's very informative and it's so needed. It's such a closed topic for most people and it's really sad. If this stuff will help anyone or give them some good ideas i say it's worth it. Sex isn't a sin or something shameful. It's a beautiful fun thing (and besides.....I like it)

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Last edited by Tranzmit on Sep-19-2001 at 13:02

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Originally posted by PinkLollypop ok i feel like i have to contribute something to this thread my favourite position is the spoon position - when he is behind me, and we are both lying on a side. oral sex is good, but intercourse is even better anal sex always turned me on in porn videos, but for the longest time i was afraid to try it. and now i love it, very gently though. we also have a vibrator and it's a great way to spice up your sex life my bf uses it on me while eating me out, and he loves it against his balls while i am playing with him. what else?...hmmmm... oh yeah... i hate condoms

gurl...i think you rule big time!!!! to be telling this in public? wow..i'm european and even i didn't dare too woooooooo!!!!!!! /me applauds for lolly
i read lena's post about the blowing and the straw etc, and i thought of something you guys could also try: if ur giving a gurl oral, cover the clit with ur mouth and suck it while movin ur tongue slightly it's not a soft approach, so make sure the gurl likes it a little harder if you don't want her to kick ya
now i have to stop cuz ma bf is gonna hunt me down now hehe

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/me is learning big time

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Originally posted by Miss Proximus gurl...i think you rule big time!!!! to be telling this in public? wow..i'm european and even i didn't dare too woooooooo!!!!!!! /me applauds for lolly

hheheheehe thanks miss p it's so nice when everybody's open. i guess it's because we'll never meet each other in real life it's always easier to talk to a complete stranger about these things. and you guys are such good listeners

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Originally posted by Tranzmit this thread has livened up a bit. Sadly i suspected that someone was going to try to make a mountain out of a molehill about this thread. We're all adults here (well pysically anyways :P)so lets try to act like it. I'm single now but i was with my g/f for a year and a half and i was lucky she was willing to try new stuff and experiment. We started out exporing each other and spent lots of time making love (not necesarily sex), eventually we tried pretty much everything cept the fetish stuff though eventually she used to get really turned on by penetration so sometimes i'd be fucking her hard and I'd slide two fingers in and out of her mouth and my other hand would be finger fucking her ass and it would drive her cr@zy ! ha ha!! Or what she used to love was for me to sit down at the end of the bed on pillows and she'd lie down on me with her back to me and we'd snuggle up and i'd slide a finger or two right up hard against her G-spot and the other i'd massage her clit. And then I'd start sliding my fingers in her faster and faster like a dick on steroids (because your hand reflexes are a lot quicker then your hips :P). I used to get her to come a few times in a go like that and it's fun cause you get to be in total control of the situation and you get to tease too if you want. (I love playing heh) You have to realise that sexuality is all a state of mind. I'll try to explain this. I've found that sexyness and sexuality have very little to do with looks and all to do with the way you approach sex. If you're thinking "whats in it for me" you'll never be as sexy nor have as much fun as if you approach a situation of "how can i make this person enjoy this as much as possible". I guarantee people will love having sex with you, once you start thinking like this you start getting very inventive and you'll innovate in sex more. It's all to do with being considerate of your partner. You'll find it's more fun too as they'll start doing things they know turn you on in return. Yup thats right - someone spending time doing thing to you you love heh heh I actually get really turned on making my baby horny as and then teasing her for a bit. She wants you to stick it in (she's begging). You do!....half an inch then try withdrawing slowly and going back in the same distance for a few minutes. then go in a bit deeper and hold it for a few then withdraw etc etc. the whole time i'd have my face a half an inch from hers just staring into her eyes while i have her pinned onto the bed. And slowly start going in deeper and faster. It's not about what you do folks it's the way you do it. My girl hated the thought of anal sex at first and i let it go because the worst thing you can do with anything is push it. After a bit she got curious on her own and we just took it slow. I mean SLOW! And she knew i wouldn't hurt her so she trusted me 100% and after getting used to it she loved it so much everytime she was coming she'd beg me to put a finger in while i was bring her to orgasm. Another thing to try is whispering dirty in their ear (particularly when they're coming - make sure they aren't too prudish though or they'll get turned off). While we were having sweaty frantic sex i'd tell her what a dirty little slut she was etc etc and she'd get so hot. Works great but make sure she knows you well enough to know it's not you insulting her LOL!! As for oral i found i couldn't keep going in one way so i'd have to alternate. I'd use my tongue up and down a bit and then try from side to side real quick. Open your mouth and stick out your tongue and shake your head quickly from side to side. Try growling real low while licking to as they get the vibrations nicely (Oh it works even better on guys girls!! Try making low vocal sounds while you've got his head in your mouth). If you want to have a REALLY great sex encounter then let her know during the day what you plan to do to her that night and keep "updating" her on your plans during the day and see how hot things get!! i love girls who do that to me too. Oh and i also LOVE it when a girl sneaks up on me and sticks her hot wet tongue in my ear....It's incredible! Me melts.....Purrrrrrrrrr!! This is all i can think of just now but it'll have to do Keep the thread going as it's very informative and it's so needed. It's such a closed topic for most people and it's really sad. If this stuff will help anyone or give them some good ideas i say it's worth it. Sex isn't a sin or something shameful. It's a beautiful fun thing (and besides.....I like it)

yes yes i have experienced some of da theoretical options u have listed but not all of dem....heh, im only 18, well turning 19, so theres time in front of me, but nice of u man, 4 ur experiences, RESPEKT

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