Registered: Feb 2003
Location: The Socialist People's Republic Of Canada
expecting men to pay for everything by default is chauvenism. i like the european way of split bills until you know each other. After that you can be just as nice as you wish to be since you know that person. Id never buy anyone else i just met a nice dinner so why should i pay for a stranger female?
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Originally posted by jester
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May-17-2005 22:36
Cal
who then now bitches
Registered: Aug 2002
Location: T.O.
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Originally posted by ShadoWolf
Absolutely disagree. If you care about her, you'd pamper her without thinking about it.
The problem with this is that in the back of the statement is the theory that women WANT to be pampered by their man, which is totally not true.
Don't get me wrong, nothing but good can come from opening doors, pulling out chairs, walking on the ouside of the curb and all that, but thats as far as pampering needs to get.
When you further "pamper" women by always getting the check, buying them shit, and changing your schedule for when its convenient for them, thats when they start to resent you.
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Originally posted by dj_bas
wow awesome!! that's way bigger than mine
May-17-2005 22:45
zookeeper
Supreme tranceaddict
Registered: Feb 2005
Location: Rochester, New York - on the shore of Lake Ontario
Re: Re: Re: Re: Should the guy pay for the date?
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Originally posted by Kytracid
if my wife told me she'd rather work then i'd gladly stay at home and raise my kids. It's not something i feel i'm naturally suited to do...but hey, we all make sacrifies in life, so if it came down to a choice between having my kids raised by strangers, or me putting on an apron and turning into Martha Stewert and baking cookies and arranging play dates you better believe i'll be ready to do it.
"I'm not afraid!!"
"Ehh...you will be...YOU WILL BE..."
A male, doing time with young children will put you in a rubber room with a sleeveless shirt in less than 2 years time, mark my words.
Women are far more patient in dealing with children.imo.
May-18-2005 04:31
zookeeper
Supreme tranceaddict
Registered: Feb 2005
Location: Rochester, New York - on the shore of Lake Ontario
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Originally posted by fayraree
Okay, you're scaring me man...you're making me think she's a PRAYING MANTIS and will totally think of me as inadequate...PLEASE EXPAND!!!
What I'm really saying is that when you and your wife decide to have children (really it's her decision imo) sex takes on a whole different angle. Making babies becomes a "crusade" for them, sex many times a week. If a month goes by and no "bun in the oven" they completely lose all rational thought and it turns into "overdrive sex" at all hours, every day of the week until "mission accomplished".
Once pregnant, sex loses all usefulness and is put away until the need for child #2, then the cycle repeats. Questions, class?
May-18-2005 05:28
zoogla
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Originally posted by zookeeper
sex many times a week. ... and it turns into "overdrive sex" at all hours, every day of the week until "mission accomplished".
LOL! Can't wait to get started! And a prenuptial agreement which stipulates consistent levels of sex before/after children should take care of that one! LOL!!
EDIT:
Oops, Sean...made a mistake...(where was my head?) LOL I wrote "sex" instead of "children" in my last sentence...
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May-18-2005 06:29
Sean Cassidy
WIKKID! WIKKID! WIKKID!
Registered: Jan 2005
Location: TORONTO
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Originally posted by fayraree
LOL! Can't wait to get started! And a prenuptial agreement which stipulates consistent levels of sex before/after sex should take care of that one! LOL!!
good one!!!!
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May-18-2005 06:35
Jayx1
Prime Minister of TOTA
Registered: Feb 2003
Location: The Socialist People's Republic Of Canada
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Originally posted by fayraree
LOL! Can't wait to get started! And a prenuptial agreement which stipulates consistent levels of sex before/after children should take care of that one! LOL!!
EDIT:
Oops, Sean...made a mistake...(where was my head?) LOL I wrote "sex" instead of "children" in my last sentence...
i didnt realize this before but prenups only count for any money made before you get married. Anything you make afterwards is open season prenup or not. Have kids and then you are really screwed. Decide not to get married and the government steps in and decides you are common law. So any way you look at it men get the raw deal in this one since men are usually the ones that lose everything.
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Originally posted by jester
Everything in this country is illegal.
"Socialism is a philosophy of failure, the creed of ignorance, and the gospel of envy, its inherent virtue is the equal sharing of misery…" Winston Churchill
"If you have ten thousand regulations you destroy all respect for the law" - Winston Churchill
May-18-2005 15:05
zookeeper
Supreme tranceaddict
Registered: Feb 2005
Location: Rochester, New York - on the shore of Lake Ontario
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Originally posted by Jayx1
So any way you look at it men get the raw deal in this one since men are usually the ones that lose everything.
In New York State, almost as bad as California, if you have a dick, you're done.
Unless the wife has done documented abuse (seen by police) to the husband you're ass is grass and your ex-wife is the lawnmower.
And a prenuptial agreement which stipulates consistent levels of sex before/after children should take care of that one! 
