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Originally posted by naesean3 thanks for the PM Jeff...... albiet forced (thanks Andria!!!) and WTF to this thread really. So many opinions spewed forth......by many experts no less An innocent discussion not directed towards anyone??? - whatever??? apparantly I have made some wrong decisions again with respect to perceived friendships or maybe I was the friend who was not respectful fully to those who I took for granted as friends........... regardless - of who's right or wrong this thread has made me realize some things that I should have realized after the first round of cuts. duly noted.......... FOR FUTURE REFERENCE If you don't like my lifestyle or choices that I make - if you are jealous of me and misinterpret my motives without questioning me personally - if you enjoy gossip and look towards me for fodder for your troughs - IF FOR ANY OF THESE REASONS (and others unbeknownst to me) rather than waste your time and effort and mine, for the sake of being polite to save face or political correctness......SERIOUSLY SAVE IT! I have no time for guessing games anymore. I have chosen to be free! WOOT WOOT! WIKKID WIKKID! thanks TA! Never failing to educate me on the ways of the world and the people that dwell within!!

ur answers are always very intelligent.. i like the way you think...

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Originally posted by StereoPrincess i'm glad this thread was created.

that makes 2 of us then don't it??

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Originally posted by StereoPrincess the biggest reason is not wanting to cause a scene. or cause drama among the group.

so instead we have the whole forum involved even better!


because of course there are never scene's or drama's caused among the groups in TOTA........


we all lurve each other - PLUR!




SAVE A PRAYER FOR THE MORNING AFTER, SAVE A PRAYER FOR A MOMENTS LAUGHTER, JUST SAVE IT!

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Originally posted by spitty great story so, um..whens your next work trip??

HAHAHAH YES! I love your comments, girl!! LMAO!!!


Naesean: There is no need to defend your lifestyle on TA...like you said, you are free, right? I respect everything you have to say and you seem like a wikked person

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Originally posted by yankeeBaby you seem like a wikked person

Girl this is an understatement. People don't get much cooler than him. LOL @ the trouble I had just meeting you at Viva...Jody and Michelle were totally bodyguarding you!!!

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Originally posted by naesean3 and WTF to this thread really. So many opinions spewed forth......by many experts no less An innocent discussion not directed towards anyone??? - whatever??? apparantly I have made some wrong decisions again with respect to perceived friendships or maybe I was the friend who was not respectful fully to those who I took for granted as friends........... regardless - of who's right or wrong this thread has made me realize some things that I should have realized after the first round of cuts. duly noted.......... FOR FUTURE REFERENCE If you don't like my lifestyle or choices that I make - if you are jealous of me and misinterpret my motives without questioning me personally - if you enjoy gossip and look towards me for fodder for your troughs - IF FOR ANY OF THESE REASONS (and others unbeknownst to me) rather than waste your time and effort and mine, for the sake of being polite to save face or political correctness......SERIOUSLY SAVE IT! I have no time for guessing games anymore. I have chosen to be free! WOOT WOOT! WIKKID WIKKID! thanks TA! Never failing to educate me on the ways of the world and the people that dwell within!!

Sean Cassidy!

I have the utmost respect for ppl who speak their mind, and stand up for themselves. I am glad that you are my friend and will continue to be for years to come. I have learned a lot from your words on numerous occasions. I think you have made some excellent decisions in the last little while and I support you 100%

Take care and will cya real soon

****hugzzzz***

Nada

P.S I love dancing to dirty tribal beats with Sean Cassidy....SO SEDUCTIVE!!!

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Originally posted by StereoPrincess the biggest reason is not wanting to cause a scene. or cause drama among the group. i'm glad this thread was created.

that's certainly understandable.

I take issue with the undertones that this is a 'gay' issue though...as if straight guys don't do the same thing...except they also have ulterior motives.

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Originally posted by naesean3 so instead we have the whole forum involved even better! ...

lol

this thread *had* potential...instead it turned a bit ugly...very unnecessary.

This is not a gay/str8 thing...it's about unwanted behaviour, period.

ALL guys should be more sensitive and respectful towards the ladies, unless they KNOW that their playful behaviour is ok...if you need to ask them if they mind, then ask.

Ladies...speak up...especially if it's a friend (gay or str8). If they're truly your friend, then you shouldn't feel like you can't say something to them...and they *definitely* shouldn't take offense at a polite "please dont, I'm not a touchy feely person" or something along like that. It doesn't have to be 'drama' or cause tension.

communication.

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Originally posted by zookeeper NO! NO! NO! NO! I'm not GAY!!!! I HAVE JUST NEVER SEEN A "CRANK" THAT LARGE BEFORE!!

Just how many Cranks have you seen before?


:P

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Originally posted by MarkT this thread *had* potential...instead it turned a bit ugly...very unnecessary.

You're right, it did...but as always the main point of this thread was taken out of context and people were arguing over things that were not even an issue at the beginning.

And Sean...you think you were singled out?...your name wasn't even brought up until you posted a novel spilling your guts about your sexual preferences and activities.

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Originally posted by Vivid Boy or pretended u fell asleep at a party so they could tea bag u

LMFAO

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just because they are gay doesnt mean they can get away with the touching part..
when a guy in a club.. either gay or straigh comes right behind me or start getting way too playful i have the option to stay or to leave.. and i always leave..

most of us are 19+.. we're not little girls.. we decide wheter we wanna be bothered or not.. girls that stay love it.. girls that dont.. just don like it.. there is no such thing as oh im afraid to tell him i dont like it.. and im just gonna stay there feeling uncomfortable..

there are friends all over the place.. and if you dont see any of your friends there are always bouncers.. or use ur fucking feet and walk away.. and if you just realize that you hate that but you were too high to get away.. then quit dropping and be more respectful to ur person.. we're grown ups.. not little kids.. we make our decisions.. we do what we want..