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| quote: | Originally posted by squirrelly
And yes, I accepted being MOH before I knew I was sick. And then I sat down and talked with her and explained that with the costs of my treatments, and the effect the treatments have on me, I wasn't sure if I was going to be able to physically stand there that day. (Mind you - the MOH duties are to pay for the bachelorette party, pay for the dress (300$) the shoes she picked out (150$) pay to get my hair done where she asked (200$) pay to get my make up done (50$), I offered to pay for half of the flowers (which I already did, and that put me out 300$) I already gave them an engagement gift (a car, yes, an old one, but I gave it to them for free b/c the guy was w/o vehicle), I have to buy a bridal shower gift, and a wedding gift)
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Wow sounds like you have a bridezilla on your hands!
$150 for shoes that she picked out? That is crazy. When I got married I paid $40 for my shoes. $150 is a bit much. $200 to get your hair done? 
Sorry I would totally not go. YOu have shown her how you are a friend (not only through money) and she has the nerve to not invite your b/f? So rude. Get rid of this "friend"; she is toxic. Continuing the friendship would only make you feel worse. Trust me, I have been through a similar experience.
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