Originally posted by apri_peel what is it with guys and threesomes?
my bf's big fantasy was to have a threesome with me and another girl
he even said, get this, that if i went down on a girl it will not be cheating but if i went down on a guy that will be cheating
i dont get this
anyone care to explain?
Sorry to break it to you girl, but he really doesn't care too much about you. That's a fact. Cheating is cheating period, whether it be with a guy or a girl.
From my own experience, I've only had a threesome twice. Both times it was just with friends. Don't get me wrong, I think threesomes are great fun as long as everyone understands the situation and no one gets hurt.
I've only really been in love only once, and this girl is one I really cared about. I could never imagine sharing her with anybody else, guy or girl.
For some of my other girlfriends from the past, had they wanted to have a threesome I wouldn't object at all. That's because I'm not in love with them.
It's really different when you love someone and can imagine yourself spending the rest of your life with them. You respect them and can't imagine them being intimate with anyone else. To me, I would never cheat on her.
May-10-2002 19:08
Crazy Serb
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Yep, Trancewave, that's a completely different angle there.
Having a threesome just for fun (don't tell me you wouldn't wanna experience something new!!) and with people you're not really tied emotionally is kinda ok... but I couldn't even imagine sharing the girl I love with someone else, be it a guy or a girl... or two girls... or... oohh, damn fantasy! arrghhh!
And to all the beatiful ladies wishing to be sitting right next to me, well, good luck... there's only one seat available, and there's a lineup already! Hehehe... naughty me!
May-10-2002 20:18
Surreal1221
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1 word
yes. . .
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May-10-2002 22:38
drizzt81
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quote:
Originally posted by fantom
And to all the beatiful ladies wishing to be sitting right next to me, well, good luck... there's only one seat available, and there's a lineup already! Hehehe... naughty me!
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May-11-2002 00:29
Crazy Serb
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quote:
Originally posted by drizzt81
did your mommie never tell you to share?
yeah, but then again, I never listened to my Mom... except maybe sometimes
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May-11-2002 02:10
torontotrance
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ACTUALY.. i'm a blond.. and i'm not hot.. lolLOL...
she lies........she is HOT!......don't let her fool you ppl.
May-11-2002 03:25
apri_peel
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Location: vancouver
the thing is, is that my bf and i are NOT that serious. i dont see him as someone i want to eventually marry and im sure he sees me the same way. i do care about him and i really like him and thats why i dont think i would be able to handle a threesome with him. in fact, i dont think im even into that kinda stuff.
but yeah, seeing him with someone else or even sharing him with someone else would break my heart, even tho we're not very serious
May-11-2002 07:35
Ca_S_ey
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Registered: Nov 2001
Location: Ohio(us)
quote:
Originally posted by apri_peel
the thing is, is that my bf and i are NOT that serious. i dont see him as someone i want to eventually marry and im sure he sees me the same way. i do care about him and i really like him and thats why i dont think i would be able to handle a threesome with him. in fact, i dont think im even into that kinda stuff.
but yeah, seeing him with someone else or even sharing him with someone else would break my heart, even tho we're not very serious
hey apri_peel,
I have to agree with what Rick and trancewave said, a guy who is only interested in experiencing that with a girl he doesnt plan on marrying, i personally wouldn't do that with the one person i truly love,
but then again you said yourself that your relationship with him isn't that serious.
So you shouldn't worry about it . i know it is fun for some guys but i personally have more respect for the girls who are not into it more than girls who are into it. And i 'd have even more respect if i married a girl who had never been in a threesome before .
casey
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May-11-2002 18:33
JM
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apri_peel,
i was gonna mention even before some other peepz started telling you that your bf dont care about you and stuff...anyways, i was gonna mention it's a little shady him saying "it's not cheating" for you...that's just some bullshit,......he's lying to you to try to get you with another girl and him....
sooooo.....that's not much respect from him towards you, i hope you realize that. relationships are about trust, respect love.....nobody should put up with anything less than that....
wish you and your bf the best,
>JM<
May-11-2002 22:14
drizzt81
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quote:
Originally posted by Ca_S_ey
And i 'd have even more respect if i married a girl who had never been in a threesome before .
casey
can you explain that for me. I don't really see you point here, and i am interested to see your side. how would someone not having had a threesome before, make you have greater respect for them?
some ideas that i could see...
1. Because they are not as sexually adventurous as someone who had?
2. Because you would know that a girl could never 'steal' your wife?
3. Because said person fits nicely into the puritan american standart of how one is supposed to behave?
what is it with guys and threesomes?
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