I'm one. And I'm sure there are others on the board, too,
Feb-06-2009 18:03
UmmiE
The Cure And The Cause
Registered: Jan 2007
Location: Brampton
My ex gf the reason why I broke up with her was because she was crazy emo type chick and an alcoholic as well.....she took 50 pills of tylenol at once when I tried to break up with her and stayed in the hospital for 7 days...doctors made her drink tar so she can throw up all those pills.....they even said if she would have been brought to them 30 minutes late she probably would have died.
Feb-06-2009 18:20
MrJiveBoJingles
Supreme tranceaddict
Registered: Jun 2004
Location: U.S.
Are there really that many people who turn crazy after months of dating? It seems like people who complain about always attracting crazies must be pretty oblivious to the signs.
Feb-06-2009 18:53
MrJiveBoJingles
Supreme tranceaddict
Registered: Jun 2004
Location: U.S.
Here are a few more signs of craziness that I didn't see listed yet:
1. The person doesn't have any friends, or has crazy friends, or says he / she has friends but never seems to hang out with them much.
2. The person doesn't seem to have any abiding interests other than "finding somebody," or gives really vague answers when asked what he / she likes to do with free time.
3. Hasn't held a job for more than a couple months at a time (unless he / she is in school, obviously).
4. Doesn't seem to have any strong opinions about anything (in other words, he / she is probably waiting for you to voice your opinions so he / she can agree with them and gain your approval).
Feb-06-2009 19:04
Silky Johnson
International Playa Hater
Registered: Nov 2003
Location:
Omg, or what about people who wait till you order at a restaurant before they place theirs...and then get the exact same thing you got??
OMG FUCKING DIE.
Feb-06-2009 19:08
Magadansky
Trees of Psychedelia
Registered: Jun 2006
Location: Sofia
quote:
Originally posted by squirrelly
I'm one. And I'm sure there are others on the board, too,
You sure? The phone thing is 100% positive for almost all people. Even if you try not to hear, you just cant stop listening what your beloved says to the other person. And thats just an example. Many of the other things you listed are also frequently met. But that doesnt mean they are crazy. My girl for example met my parents (and I met hers) long before that "six month mark". Nothing disastrious happened.
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I pay no attention to who my bf talks to. He's a landscaper. You know how many minutes he uses a month? 6500 minimum. If I tried to keep up I'd freak myself out. He gets like 55 voicemails A DAY. I'm not paranoid, I don't have any insecurity that he's going to cheat - I don't care, or pay attention. I also don't check his texts, etc.
In fact, if he logs onto myspace or something and I'm laying next to him on the bed - I'll usually flip so my head is at his feet and watch TV so he can have his privacy. Doesn't phase me.
//edit - and I don't think that parents should be met until you're serious about one another, and I think at 6 months you're still in the honeymoon phase. (nearing the end, but still in it regardless)
Feb-06-2009 19:30
Lira
Ancient BassAddict
Registered: Nov 2001
Location: Brasilia, Brazil
Bleh, I met my mother-in-law just a couple of months after we started dating (at her birthday party).
Nothing major changed.
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Feb-06-2009 20:41
whiskers
old skool
Registered: Sep 2001
Location: in your dreams
quote:
Originally posted by squirrelly
I pay no attention to who my bf talks to. He's a landscaper.
Ohhh. Haven't you seen those movies? "Logjammin'" and such?
quote:
Originally posted by squirrelly
In fact, if he logs onto myspace or something and I'm laying next to him on the bed - I'll usually flip so my head is at his feet and watch TV so he can have his privacy. Doesn't phase me.
I'll do a fun flame war or two on facebook with a GF, but as far as me caring what she's doing on facebook/myspace/whatever else... god, let her comment on stuff and send messages all she wants, some of it will show up in the feed anyway and if it's amusing, I'll read and maybe comment too, but the rest of the stuff and gossip... hell now, I'm staying out of that!
quote:
Originally posted by squirrelly
//edit - and I don't think that parents should be met until you're serious about one another
This. Absolutely no reason to do that until you're living together and the such.
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Feb-06-2009 20:41
whiskers
old skool
Registered: Sep 2001
Location: in your dreams
quote:
Originally posted by Lira
Bleh, I met my mother-in-law just a couple of months after we started dating (at her birthday party).
Nothing major changed.
But it wasn't like "let's go meet my parents" - was it?
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Feb-06-2009 20:42
whiskers
old skool
Registered: Sep 2001
Location: in your dreams
quote:
Originally posted by MrJiveBoJingles
Are there really that many people who turn crazy after months of dating? It seems like people who complain about always attracting crazies must be pretty oblivious to the signs.
Some people are just good at hiding it for some time. And then, when relationships are tested or you run into an argument, the ugly rears its head from under the surface.
